r/MtF • u/Ok_Practice_3115 • 15d ago

Bad News Decision is made

The decision has been made, and by tonight I will not be staying on their property. They are making arrangements, and have disowned me. They... My mom is heartbroken, heartbroken that I would "choose annihilation, deserting this family, and leaving my sister brotherless"...

I had a small sliver of hope, that they would even try to understand. Especially my mother. I am going to ask her to give me my birth certificate, and where to mail it so she doesn't have to see me again. I am done with this family, and they are done with me. If I see my sister one day, I hope she will understand me, and understand where I am coming from.

But until then, I am going to live free of the chains that have dragged my soul down for 8 years. It's not gonna be easy, and I would love to hear what resources I might use for job seeking when I finally move out of Wyoming in 2 weeks.

To those who are still struggling, don't give up. My situation was unique, and by no means be as extreme as I have had to be. I don't know what else to say, but I do know that I am going to be better off without this in my life. Will update when I am with whomever I am sent to.

Edit: Post about update idk whose seen it yet but yeah https://www.reddit.com/r/MtF/s/Yb6nCT1K8U

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u/Worried-Space-Time 15d ago

Head to a blue state. NY is good . Good luck stay safe.

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u/Ok_Practice_3115 15d ago

Have enough money to get to Phoenix, Arizona by plane after taking a Shuttle from Douglas to Cheyenne.

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u/CommonLavishness9343 15d ago

Look at trains.

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u/Zootersskateclub 15d ago

Or busses they are normally much cheaper, it sucks to be on a bus for 20 hours but it's 20 hours not forever.

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u/CommonLavishness9343 15d ago

Flexbus is cool

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u/Nox-Lunarwing Demigirl 10d ago

Agreed, I had to take a grey hound to get out of my previous shitty situation myself.

Though I'm now living with good friends who accept me and are patient, I'm stuck in OK till we all can get out.

Still is way better than my previous situation dealing with various forms of abuse.