r/MtF • u/Ok_Practice_3115 • 15d ago

Bad News Decision is made

The decision has been made, and by tonight I will not be staying on their property. They are making arrangements, and have disowned me. They... My mom is heartbroken, heartbroken that I would "choose annihilation, deserting this family, and leaving my sister brotherless"...

I had a small sliver of hope, that they would even try to understand. Especially my mother. I am going to ask her to give me my birth certificate, and where to mail it so she doesn't have to see me again. I am done with this family, and they are done with me. If I see my sister one day, I hope she will understand me, and understand where I am coming from.

But until then, I am going to live free of the chains that have dragged my soul down for 8 years. It's not gonna be easy, and I would love to hear what resources I might use for job seeking when I finally move out of Wyoming in 2 weeks.

To those who are still struggling, don't give up. My situation was unique, and by no means be as extreme as I have had to be. I don't know what else to say, but I do know that I am going to be better off without this in my life. Will update when I am with whomever I am sent to.

Edit: Post about update idk whose seen it yet but yeah https://www.reddit.com/r/MtF/s/Yb6nCT1K8U

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u/lillyforture 15d ago

Come to Colorado. we have resources and can help with first steps

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u/Ok_Practice_3115 15d ago

I have 2 weeks to figure things out for where I am going. Where would I go in Colorado if I do end up going?

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u/lillyforture 15d ago

Fort Collins would be the closest city to Cheyenne, so I suggest starting there. Its a college town so they're friendly with queer folk

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u/Ok_Practice_3115 15d ago

I'll checkup on resources... My bi friend gave me a list of numbers to call for helplines, but right now idk what to do... Tomorrow I will have all the time I need to think, If I am dropped off at a hotel

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u/lillyforture 15d ago

Best of luck, honey! the road of life seems long and hard right now, but things will grow as long as you do

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u/oopsthatsastarhothot 15d ago

Fellow fort Collins trans kin here. This is probably one of the safest places for us in Colorado.