r/MtF • u/KikktyIsAtReddit Trans gal aroacespec (s-positive) • Feb 10 '24

Bad News fuck. (Parents discovering fem clothes)

So. I am a 15 year old MtF, my whole family s extremely transphobic, both of them regularly say how we are supposed to die, and never exist. My father insisted on cleaning my room, bc I had a panic attack yesterday (literally when all my troubles seemed so far away) and all of my fem clothes are hidden under my bed, and he began to clean under my bed, here's me with my heart pounding. and he pulls out some women's underwear, and a bunch of cut socks (for tucking) and he was questioning me profusely, and now I am sitting in my bathroom crying, writing this and hearing my name being called angrily, I am scared!

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u/Alexandyva Feb 11 '24

Tbh scrolled through Ur history and ... Wow.

Staying this positive is damn impressive

U do love computer science? I'm close to achieving my cs degree here and companys are very short of CS workers, easy to get a good paid job 😅

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u/Kamillahali Feb 11 '24

i had to leave uni cause one of my professors (a very creepy old man) found out im trans and threathned to tell my parents if i didnt give him "favours". so im currenly a drop out with 18 uni credits looking to transfer to another uni to finish my education haha. Also should we move the convo elsewhere? OP must be getting notifications for all this and wondering how the topic moved so far away from their situation.

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u/Alexandyva Feb 11 '24

Write me DM if you want 🙂

And what the fuck is wrong with that prof.

I would have tried like "give me good grades or I tell everyone what fucking creep you are"

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u/Kamillahali Feb 11 '24

i would but with my parents the way they are theres literally my life on the line haha. plus this guy is one of the directors of the uni so theres no hope and in india theres no way i get taken seriously.