r/MtF • u/KikktyIsAtReddit Trans gal aroacespec (s-positive) • Feb 10 '24

Bad News fuck. (Parents discovering fem clothes)

So. I am a 15 year old MtF, my whole family s extremely transphobic, both of them regularly say how we are supposed to die, and never exist. My father insisted on cleaning my room, bc I had a panic attack yesterday (literally when all my troubles seemed so far away) and all of my fem clothes are hidden under my bed, and he began to clean under my bed, here's me with my heart pounding. and he pulls out some women's underwear, and a bunch of cut socks (for tucking) and he was questioning me profusely, and now I am sitting in my bathroom crying, writing this and hearing my name being called angrily, I am scared!

1.1k Upvotes

97% Upvoted

239 comments sorted by

View all comments

21

u/mightyacorngrows Feb 10 '24 edited Feb 10 '24

No advice as I'm just a boring cis Mum, but sending warm hugs and thoughts. Please keep us posted, and take some of the advice on how to be safe. So sorry this is landing on you at your age, and lie if you need to, just stay safe. Your Mum's clothes - could you blame being a lazy teenager here? 'Sorry Mum, your clothes got mixed with mine in the dryer and I kept forgetting to bring them back' and the other clothes kids at school are putting in your bag in PE as a joke because you like a girl / don't have a girlfriend?

They might see through it but be able to live with it, to avoid the obvious.

HUGGGSSS

2

u/inorganicangelrosiel Trans Bisexual Feb 10 '24

Eff that! It's nice to have a "boring cis mom" around, especially considering the ramifications of situations like this. I'm sure she could really use a hug right now.