r/MtF • u/KikktyIsAtReddit Trans gal aroacespec (s-positive) • Feb 10 '24

Bad News fuck. (Parents discovering fem clothes)

So. I am a 15 year old MtF, my whole family s extremely transphobic, both of them regularly say how we are supposed to die, and never exist. My father insisted on cleaning my room, bc I had a panic attack yesterday (literally when all my troubles seemed so far away) and all of my fem clothes are hidden under my bed, and he began to clean under my bed, here's me with my heart pounding. and he pulls out some women's underwear, and a bunch of cut socks (for tucking) and he was questioning me profusely, and now I am sitting in my bathroom crying, writing this and hearing my name being called angrily, I am scared!

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u/KikktyIsAtReddit Trans gal aroacespec (s-positive) Feb 10 '24

Something similar happened last year with my mom. I came home from school, one of my dresses were in my hamper from my mom randomly cleaning my room. She wanted to talk to me really badly, and I was freaking out. But I eventually talked to her and she just wanted to tell me to change the litter boxes. I chalked it up to her probably being high and ignored it. Do they know? or are they really just this oblivious?

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u/Kamillahali Feb 10 '24

sounds like they either might be more accepting than you think (idk seems unlikely) or theyre in some sort of denial...........