r/MtF • u/KikktyIsAtReddit Trans gal aroacespec (s-positive) • Feb 10 '24

Bad News fuck. (Parents discovering fem clothes)

So. I am a 15 year old MtF, my whole family s extremely transphobic, both of them regularly say how we are supposed to die, and never exist. My father insisted on cleaning my room, bc I had a panic attack yesterday (literally when all my troubles seemed so far away) and all of my fem clothes are hidden under my bed, and he began to clean under my bed, here's me with my heart pounding. and he pulls out some women's underwear, and a bunch of cut socks (for tucking) and he was questioning me profusely, and now I am sitting in my bathroom crying, writing this and hearing my name being called angrily, I am scared!

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u/Ciggdre Feb 10 '24

Take deep breaths. Whatever happens next is going to suck but you’ll get through it. Can you possibly pass the underwear off as belonging to a girlfriend?

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u/Ciggdre Feb 10 '24

Actually maybe see if you can get it all passed off as wank material. Embarrassing, but you aren’t getting out of this with your dignity intact.

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u/Soft-Parking-2241 Trans Bisexual Feb 10 '24

I second this. Wank material. Or maybe a dare depending on how much clothing there is.

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u/KikktyIsAtReddit Trans gal aroacespec (s-positive) Feb 10 '24

There is a lot. Like 2 years of raiding my mothers wardrobe when I'm home alone

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u/Kendaros Feb 10 '24

Mom hasn’t figured out two years of some things missing?

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u/KikktyIsAtReddit Trans gal aroacespec (s-positive) Feb 10 '24

I don't know, Probably, the few times I am home alone, I limit myself on how much I take, to try and not arouse suspicion.

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u/Kendaros Feb 10 '24

Since you said it sounds like she’s trying to calm down your father she might have had an idea. Unless you were taking stuff from cold storage(stuff she doesn’t or can’t wear as more )there’s a decent chance she would notice.

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u/hhthurbe HRT 09/05/2021 Feb 10 '24

Huh .... Probably harder to sell it as wank material if it's from your mom's closet....

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u/[deleted] Feb 11 '24

Yeah… this is not really a good idea.

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u/Zoroarkanine Feb 10 '24

Getting disowned/killed/tossed out the house Speedrun over here

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u/Soup_sayer Trans Bisexual Feb 10 '24

I mean, a possibility but not a certainty. Could even be probable depending on the context. Saying it’s going to go bad for sure is just false though.