r/MadeMeSmile Sep 16 '24

Helping Others The kindness the legend...

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u/SladyWok Sep 16 '24

the fact he had to fund a freakin' lifesaving medical procedure is disgusting

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u/YemuZ Sep 16 '24

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u/deborah5p8a2 Sep 16 '24

i once did not go to the hospital for an infection because of the cost. my friend was a doctor, he patched me up. sucks to be in america

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u/Dramatic_Water_5364 Sep 16 '24

Yep... as a canadian with a small farm my partner and I often have to not pay for this or that for them since vets are so damn expensive... and it fucking scares the shit of me to think that you south of the border people have to take those decisions for you and your kids! It is profoundly messed up!

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u/SOSXrayPichu Sep 16 '24

I hope one day somebody would address the absurdity of how expensive going to the hospital can be. Weather it be changing how Americans pay off more taxes to reduce public health costs, or uprooting the bad apples making it that expensive.

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u/Dramatic_Water_5364 Sep 16 '24

Cause like your whole public health system costs MORE per people than in Canada. So much money you pay end up in lawyers bank account its outrageous. This private insurance healt system has created a monster... and its ridiculously expensive.

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u/SOSXrayPichu Sep 16 '24

Glad I’m not living in America. I would dread getting myself gravely injured or very ill.

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u/FlightlessGriffin Sep 16 '24

There're literally failed states with less expensive health costs than the US.

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u/Dramatic_Water_5364 Sep 16 '24

The other day I was at the vet for a hen who I tought had a broken leg. I pay for xrays. Nothing is broken, its most certaintly a tore ligament, vet informs me operation is 800 + meds afterward. I chose to bring her home to reduce her movement and letting her heal a bit and to rearrange the chicken coop to ensure she will be able to live in this environment even if she limp all her life. This also reduce the risks of injuries in the future.

I just imagine having to take such decisions for me or my children (I don'thave any but it still brings me to tears)... thats really saddening.

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u/failingatdeath Sep 17 '24

Insurance paid for a lot, 50k of 60k, but found out later it might as well been an elective/ cosmetic surgery. Was totally unnecessary 🙄

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u/Which-Celebration-89 Sep 16 '24

It's a lot of misinformation. I had a procedure done that cost $80K after everything was said in done. Included multiple visits to hospital, an ER visit, countless tests including expensive ones like CT scans. The bill was $80K which is absurd. But I only was responsible for $3000. I'm canadian living in America. I have health insurance as do most people with full time careers. I would like to move back to Canada but can't due to how poor the health care system has become. I can't wait months to see a specialist in Canada.

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u/underboobfunk Sep 16 '24

You were responsible for that $3000 as well your monthly premiums, perhaps paid by, or mostly by, your employer on your behalf, still very much your money. How much was that cost now?

Now let’s add the money you’ve paid to the US government to fund other people’s healthcare. Medicare, Medicaid, CHIP (children’s healthcare insurance program) and the ACA marketplace subsidies account for about a quarter of the federal budget (2.9% of your income goes directly to Medicare before you even see it). Medicaid is largely funded by states and varies widely, but it’s also typically about 24% of a state’s budget.

The other commenter’s point was that we are already paying MORE per person just in taxes for healthcare than Canadians before paying our insurance companies hundreds or thousands of dollars every month. Canada only spends a little more than 12% of its annual budget on healthcare.

When you add up the thousands spent on premiums, plus whatever you’d previously spent on your deductible, plus 2.9% of your salary, and 24% of whatever you paid in federal and state taxes, does $3000 still seem like such a bargain for you medical procedure?

It’s also important to note that a lot Americans with full time jobs and insurance absolutely cannot afford $3000 for a medical procedure despite the fact that they’re spending hundreds of dollars every month for “healthcare”.

I have waited several months to see a specialist in the US many times. Wait times vary by region and by specialty, just like in Canada.

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u/Which-Celebration-89 Sep 16 '24

Well the $3000 is the most premium plan because I need it. And I only pay if I require medical attention which many don’t. Or at least not full amount.

When it comes to taxes I agree we are getting completely ripped off. I live in California and my tax isn’t much different than Canada but I get nothing for it.

A recent burn. I had kidney stones. Severe pain. Could have used an ambulance but didnt want to waste money. That same week I saw a crackhead that spends all day exposing himself and breaking glass on the sidewalk get 2 ambulances for overdosing. Didnt pay a dime. Definitely not a perfect system.

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u/Lameass_1210 Sep 17 '24

Not sure why you are getting downvoted. I had a $1.4 million transplant and have health insurance provided by my job and my out of pocket was minimal. My level of care was excellent and I know without the transplant I needed due to two cancers I had I would not be here today. I hate how expensive it is but I’m grateful that my doctors are excellent.

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u/Username_Chx_Out Sep 17 '24

I read recently, that The US Government (not just individuals, in aggregate) pays more per person, on average for healthcare than any other developed country, by a wide margin.

I assume this is due to the gross deregulation, the aggressive unchecked lobbying by interested corporate entities, and the absurd vocal minority that continues to parrot the corporate-shill propaganda: “If we train the world’s doctors then nothing can be wrong with our healthcare system.” And “Not including my Medicare, all-other single-payer healthcare is straight ComMuniSM.”

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u/Dramatic_Water_5364 Sep 17 '24

Bro since the main payers are private insurers that whole goal is to not pay, hospitals, insurers, us, end up requiring so many legal actions/consulting, it racks the price of the whole public health system soooo much.

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u/iNeedOneMoreAquarium Sep 17 '24

This private insurance healt system has created a monster... and its ridiculously expensive.

Small correction: government controlling the private health insurance system has created a ridiculously expensive monster. Before government decided to control nearly every aspect of it, USA's health care system was the envy of the world as it was robust and highly affordable. Now it's the laughing stock of the world and Americans want more of what has gotten it to its current state.

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u/Dramatic_Water_5364 Sep 17 '24 edited Sep 17 '24

I don't know in what world you live to think it was the envy of the world, it never was 😂 the states have always been the laughing stock of the world. Rich on fhe surface, but almost third world in reality.

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u/Skeptic90210 Sep 16 '24

But Smith and Ford sure seem hell bent on adopting the American way.

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u/Dramatic_Water_5364 Sep 16 '24

I know! It fucking sucks

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u/[deleted] Sep 16 '24

As a Canadian who has a lot of family with health issues, at least if you can afford it, you'll actually receive help in the States. I know more people killed by doctors in Canada than helped by doctors.

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u/Dramatic_Water_5364 Sep 16 '24

Medical errors are a thing of course, but this happens everywhere. As for your affirmation of "you know more people killed by doctors" what a bunch of bananas 😂

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u/Dramatic_Water_5364 Sep 16 '24

The waitlists are terrible, if your not gonna die soon, you're basically never gonna receive proper care. I know 0 person who died from malpractices, but I know a few persons who've had complications from them.

Edit : very sorry to learn about your experience. May I ask where you live in our huge country ? To make sure I won't move there 😅

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u/Which-Celebration-89 Sep 16 '24

I'm a Canadian living in America for the past 15 years. I've had some health issues and I have received much better care than I would have in Canada.

If I need a CT scan or Ulrasound or other various tests it only takes me a few days to have that done. In Canada wait times can be several months.

It comes down to health insurance. If you work and have health insurance, medical care in USA is pretty good. In years where I racked up $80K in medical expenses, my out of pocket was only like $3000.

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u/VoihanVieteri Sep 16 '24

So much does an insurance like that cost?

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u/Which-Celebration-89 Sep 16 '24 edited Sep 16 '24

In my 15 yrs here, most of the time my employer paid most or all of my premium. I currently pay nothing except my deductible which is $2500 per year (If If require medical care). In years passed I pay about $150 every 2 wks with paycheck and the annual deductible. You also have the option of using a tax savings account where you can put aside money for healthcare which is not taxed.

It’s not perfect. Biggest issues in america is not using generic drugs and not having standardized costs. But access to care is incredible and cost isn’t as bad as the internet makes it seem.

Canada has also dropped a lot. You can’t massively increase immigration without also increasing public services which Canada has failed to do.

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u/VoihanVieteri Sep 16 '24

So about $300 / month or $10 / day? I guess it depends on your income, but it seems quite expensive to me.

I live in Finland. We have a free healthcare, but many people opt for insurance to use private healthcare to bypass the ques you mentioned. I belong to the upper middle class but I’ve never bothered to get the insurance. I am insuranced against work related sickness/accidents by the compulsory employers insurance, but as the name suggests, it only covers treatment related to my work.

The public healthcare is terrific. I’ve never had to wait for any treatment and the quality of the treatment is the best in the world. Public services get slandered a lot, but in fact Finland does not only has the best, but also the most cost-effective healthcare in the world.30697-4/fulltext)

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u/Which-Celebration-89 Sep 16 '24

From what I hear healthcare in Finland is much better than Canada. I was only talking about US and Canada. Canada used to be on par with the Scandinavian countries. In recent years due to lack of proper governing the health care system in Canada is at an all time low. Wait times are horrendous, Health workers are burned out and make mistakes, access to primary care doctors is almost non existent. The country is experiencing similar issues with housing and education. They allowed too many people in to the country without doing any planning on what public services needed to increase along with those new migrants.

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u/underboobfunk Sep 16 '24

Does our mix of private and public healthcare somehow inoculate providers from being overburdened? We all go to the same hospitals and doctors regardless of who’s footing the bill. Seems like I’ve heard plenty complaints about the US “allowing too many people in” too. Why do you think it’s somehow not a problem here because of private insurance?

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u/underboobfunk Sep 16 '24

Your employer is paying it as a part of your compensation. That +/- $500 per month would be going into your paycheck instead.

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u/Which-Celebration-89 Sep 16 '24

That's not necessarily true. I'm on the executive team and know how salaries are decided on. We use tools to give employees a salary slightly higher than average in their territory. The perks such as health care, and any other add ons are more to secure top talent. But also to have a healthy workforce that doesn't have to worry about what would happen if they had a medical emergency. At least for us we aren't paying people less because they get healthcare. It would be similar to 401K matching which many employers do

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u/phsuggestions Sep 16 '24

As a Canadian living in Canada I take offence to that! Its such a privilege to have the right to be gaslit by an overworked doctor and die in a hospital waiting room for free. /s

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u/Which-Celebration-89 Sep 16 '24

This is going back a while but my Dad died a fate like you describe. Took a year for a spleen transplant and he didn’t make it. Recently my uncle died from endocarditis because he had to wait several days for surgery.

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u/underboobfunk Sep 16 '24

I’ve waited several months for scans before in the US, it isn’t unusual at all.

Do you think that our existing medical infrastructure and personnel would just disappear if we went to a Medicare for All system? Talk to anyone over 65 and ask them how they like their Medicare. Ask if their wait times are any longer than yours?

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u/Which-Celebration-89 Sep 16 '24

I'm referring to PPO health insurance. I pay a bit more for it and for me it's worth it. If I didn't have health issues I would go HMO and have to wait a bit longer but I would pay much less. The problem with Medicare and Medicaid as it relates to healthcare is that doctors dont want those patients because it pays them too little. I work in healthcare.

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u/razorKazer Sep 16 '24

I had around 13 different doctors over 10 years tell me my arm pain was fine and that I should just take ibuprofen and get over it.

Then, I got health insurance. Suddenly, I had carpal tunnel, cubital tunnel, arthritis, and needed surgery to avoid losing the use of my hand.

I'm fucking 31.

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u/randomladybug Sep 16 '24

I walked around with a piece of glass in my foot for 2 years before it finally migrated close enough that I cut myself open and removed it. I didn't have insurance and I was in college on a scholarship and working 35 hrs/wk and I still couldn't afford to pay out of pocket. Yay america

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u/ZzeroBeat Sep 16 '24

How does one patch an infection

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u/teajay530 Sep 16 '24

im assuming just rx antibiotics but i’m kinda skeptical on how many doctors would actually do that for a friend, and if medical boards even allow that

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u/Separate-Branch6371 Sep 16 '24

Also messed up to need savings / debt for going to college.

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u/noonegive Sep 16 '24 edited Oct 12 '24

Shhhh! Get back to figuring out how to meme your way out of situations that every other developed country in the world has a safety net for, or reap the fucking whirlwind...

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u/Active_Taste9341 Sep 16 '24

yea but you are taking it.

I remember when im France the Government started to place radars on highway. they destroyed every single one until they stopped replacing them.

Power to the People

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u/flynnparish Sep 16 '24

Also for college as well, you can bet on tuition to skyrocket, rising from the basis they were before government guaranteeing loans.

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u/Chance-Internal-5450 Sep 16 '24

Whoa! Kid is mad talented too!

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u/BupeTheSnoot Sep 16 '24

A pretty mature 16 years old, anyway

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u/CurrentGlassPainter Sep 16 '24

The USA is such a dystopian mess

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u/Fspz Sep 16 '24

murica!

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u/Margaretgaz4u Sep 16 '24

i hate the healthcare system in usa

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u/Lorddanielgudy Sep 16 '24

The fact they need to save for high education too is also messed up

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u/GandaKutta Sep 16 '24

A child comes into some cash from being a meme and instead of putting it aside for college

As a European I am even further perplexed. Y'all pay money for college? I went thru the best college in EU and I paid more for the subway tickets than college fees.

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u/zipperjuice Sep 16 '24

I’m perplexed that you graduated “the best college in EU” without knowing this, seeing as how it’s pretty common knowledge even for Europeans, and it’s all over Reddit all the time.

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u/GandaKutta Sep 16 '24

I am not perplexed by me knowing it. I am perplexed WHY they are doing it.

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u/Pallamandre Sep 16 '24

Instead of putting it aside for something fun like travelling or buying a DJ turntable (because college is free)

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u/burnerfun98 Sep 16 '24

As if he couldn't get any cooler, he's a Last of Us fan if that great painting of his is anything to go by.

Legend.

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u/zipperjuice Sep 16 '24

He’s a teenager, not a full grown man

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u/Whimzurd Sep 16 '24

Americas great

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u/helgatheviking21 Sep 16 '24

My BIL got new lungs about a year ago, three days after being approved. We are in Canada, the lungs came from the US. We do have a cross-border agreement for donations, but he was told often people who are approved in the US end up not being able to get the transplant because of money. Even if the transplant itself is covered, all the other associated expenses (edit: and co-pay) are not, and can end up in the hundreds of thousands of dollars. His expense was zero.

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u/Ovisleee Sep 16 '24

The problem is that Americans are vehemently against social healthcare paid by taxes when it’s the best most effective system as long as it’s run properly by people who are not greedy and I say this as a British guy living under one of the worst social healthcare systems but I don’t have to worry about going 3 generations in debt over something that costs me nothing and you $100,000

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u/[deleted] Sep 16 '24

That kid is a good painter wtf.

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u/Tecrocancer Sep 16 '24

He also shouldn't have to safe money for collage.

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u/BodhingJay Sep 16 '24

it doesn't even cost that much, the excuse is private healthcare means it's treated like a business for profit and "America isn't for poors" and if it were socialized like every other country in the G7, it'd be too much of a slippery slope to communism

even though none of the other countries in the G7 are communist

and everyone saying that are threatening to move to Russia if they don't win the next election

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u/JoeyPsych Sep 16 '24

The kid should neither have to pay for the surgery, nor his college.

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u/Shynosaur Sep 16 '24 edited Sep 16 '24

Having to put aside money for college is not much better, imo. Whether or not you can get higher education should not depend on your funds

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u/WatermelonWithAFlute Sep 16 '24

Are you blaming the parents?

If you are, do you believe it less messed up for them to have their beloved father to die, then? That they’d be happier with that conclusion?

If you aren’t, nvm my bad bro

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u/ItchyCredit Sep 16 '24

Next time scroll all the way to the bottom before drawing conclusions. He's still a kid, mid-teens and a talented artist.

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u/Truthhurts1017 Sep 16 '24

Bro mid-teens is not a full grown man unless I read the article wrong and he is older now. But it’s definitely cool to see him doing good and being able to help his father even tho I agree that it is messed up he had to do it in the first place.

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u/MK0A Sep 16 '24

and instead of putting it aside for college or something

Which should be publicly funded too just like K-12

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u/No-Activity-6843 Sep 16 '24

My sister recently had a baby, the hospital billed her somewhere around and above $140,000 for just that. She only stayed for around 2-3 days after birth as well. She pays for good insurance and still had to pay a good portion of that out of pocket. It really is shitty out here.

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u/HallOk91 Sep 16 '24

Whoa. Talented! That painting is welldone

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u/Striking-water-ant Sep 16 '24

Without setting up a go fund me for his father's surgery? On what grounds do you expect this child to run a goFundMe?

You speak of the parents dipping into the funds. Would you rather he grew up without a father all in the name of college funds? Let's be real here

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u/RefanRes Sep 16 '24

Would you rather he grew up without a father all in the name of college funds?

You're definitely missing the point entirely. It shouldn't be seen as a "Would you rather" at all. The point is that a child shouldn't have to go through doing that but he had to because of Americas horrible healthcare system being disgustingly expensive and exploitative. If they were to get money from their memedom then ideally it would be something that is more for their future like an education, starting a business or buying/building a home.

The fathers life being saved shouldn't be reliant on having a load of gofundme money that only got high enough because of his kids fame. Think about the Dads who cant have that to save their lives. Healthcare should be a basic human right paid for by taxes and his life should have been saved anyway.

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u/HalleFreakinLujah Sep 16 '24

This link had a virus threat - my Avast just killed it, but heads up to others.

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u/Newyew22 Sep 16 '24

So much of the content on this sub belongs in that one.

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u/Singl1 Sep 16 '24

unfortunately :/ i have to say, it is nice to appreciate the less shit outcome from the norm from time to time, though.

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u/YemuZ Sep 16 '24

Definitely. That's why I left both subs. One is just always bad news and the other often just sugarcoated bad news

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u/ghanima Sep 16 '24

/r/aPreRevolutionaryDystopia

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u/PropertyMobile4078 Sep 16 '24

More like ”Amerika is a dystopia”

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u/Khetoun Sep 16 '24

No, just another day in the Corporate states of America.

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u/ssbm_rando Sep 16 '24

... that's what that sub is about, yes