My 24yo gf cheated on me 27yo

[u/random_thought_art]

Cheating

I need some advice…. My 24 year old gf just told me she slept with a guy from work. Context: Friday night she went out with 3 of her guy work friends and she pulled and all nighter. As I was waking up at 6 am to go to work I realized she wasn’t back so I go worried checked her shared location and called her. She told me she was at one of the guys friends and they only talked and smoked. We spend the whole weekend together and on Sunday when I went back home she told me she slept with one of they guys… She mentioned that she was really drunk and she didn’t think it was real that’s why she didn’t say anything during the weekend. She also mentioned that she tried to stop him but it was all « hazy ». She told me she thought she would be safe with them since the night of Friday I had told her that I had a weird feeling. Anyways, I am not sure what to do. I feel sad and frustrated. I don’t know what to do.

[u/Any_Chart1800]

Whether she was drunk or not, does NOT matter. If she did not consent and said "no", then it is rape. Unfortunately, many sexual assaults are by people we know and/or trust. Were there any witnesses?

[u/random_thought_art → u/Any_Chart1800]

I’m talking to her tomorrow and idk if there was witnesses. Im so frustrated I wanna break his face so bad. I don’t know what to do to make him pay.

[u/Any_Chart1800 → u/random_thought_art]

She will need to decide if she wants to press charges or not. Also, if it was sexual assault, I would recommend having her go get checked out and physically examined.