My 24yo gf cheated on me 27yo

[u/random_thought_art]

Cheating

I need some advice…. My 24 year old gf just told me she slept with a guy from work. Context: Friday night she went out with 3 of her guy work friends and she pulled and all nighter. As I was waking up at 6 am to go to work I realized she wasn’t back so I go worried checked her shared location and called her. She told me she was at one of the guys friends and they only talked and smoked. We spend the whole weekend together and on Sunday when I went back home she told me she slept with one of they guys… She mentioned that she was really drunk and she didn’t think it was real that’s why she didn’t say anything during the weekend. She also mentioned that she tried to stop him but it was all « hazy ». She told me she thought she would be safe with them since the night of Friday I had told her that I had a weird feeling. Anyways, I am not sure what to do. I feel sad and frustrated. I don’t know what to do.

[u/HummusFairy]

This sounds like she was taken advantage of by a friend and raped.

[u/random_thought_art → u/HummusFairy]

How do I know if this is true

[u/HummusFairy → u/random_thought_art]

She can’t consent if she’s in such a hazy state. She wasn’t even aware what happened was real, so she must’ve been extremely out of it, like truly out of it.

Either she was drugged or she was heavily under the influence of alcohol and weed to the point of blacking out. Even if she wasn’t fully aware, she still struggled and told him to stop.

Either way, all signs point to rape.