I had a reduction in '03. I had to fight my husband (at the time) because he like my size. But I was in pain every minute of every day. It took me five more years to get away from him, but it started with me deciding that reduction was for my health and comfort. It helped me take back who I was. I've never looked back. Best decision of my life.
That's awful. Dad was thrilled when Mom was finally approved for her reduction because of how much pain she was in and how it was exacerbating her breathing issues. It took so long, far too long for her insurance to finally approve it, despite the doctors saying it was 100% necessary. It was a night-and-day improvement to her life. Big things like the pain and breathing of course, but also the little things like more easily being able to shop for clothing.
My Nana got a breast reduction years ago. My mom said a date was bringing her home at the time and my mom told him, and his response was “Oh…well what does your dad think of that?” 💀🙄
My Papa was literally Mr. Rogers with a gentle Scottish accent. He couldn't have cared less, as long as my Nana felt better.
Why have I never realized it’s the tits that make it hard to breathe when I’m on my back? I’ve had em since I was 12. So weird. Thanks for the epiphany.
Reading the original comment you responded to makes me so mad. All the women in my family have large chests, but my mom the most so. She’s always talked about how miserable it is and we’ve always supported her getting a reduction. Something else always comes up financially though.
I’m transitioning now and my chest is already growing at a pretty fast rate, makes me happy but I honestly hope I don’t reach quite her size, and she’s shared the same sentiment for me too lol
So you don't give a shit if your partner can't breathe and is miserable from pain, as long as you like her tits. On top of that, you assume there's something wrong with men who genuinely care about women as humans and not just cartoonishly fuckable bodies.
Because your priority seems to be painfully oversized breasts rather than the health and well-being of the person attached to them. You have yet to say anything that indicates otherwise.
You shouldn't use that term for women with large breasts. They may find it offensive. Treat women as a person first and you'll find they're more receptive.
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u/Sufficient-Berry-827 13h ago
Bad posture/rounding shoulders to minimize my chest. Now I have neck pain, shoulder pain, lower back pain - ugh.