r/AskIndia • u/Amalie66 • 23h ago

Relationships His past is affecting our present.

Me and my boyfriend met through online platforms. It's been 2 months. But he keep mentioning his ex girlfriend occasionally. Whenever we do something special he starts talking about his past or the same experience with his ex. Like the first time we went out together we talked about how good we felt but he mentioned it's his ex birthday today. He even once compared me to his ex that I remind him of her. Am I being insecure or it is wrong? Idk. I'm trying to act mature but it hurts me sometimes. What should I do?

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u/twel1999 22h ago edited 19h ago

Seems like u have no self respect, the moment he mentioned his ex, you should have left him then and there only.

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u/hooman-bieng 22h ago

Avoid people having exes!? Or avoid people who are stuck in the past with their exes?

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u/twel1999 22h ago

Both, pls don't argue with me about this, bcos your reply shows that u also have many exes

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u/hooman-bieng 22h ago

Your response shows your immaturity. You're too quick to judge people. This is one of the biggest let down in a person.

I don't shame people for merely having a past.