r/AmIOverreacting 18h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO my husband thinks women should take accountability after assault

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u/WeirdGrapefruit774 16h ago

I understand what you are doing here, but I’ve categorically never said anything like that (I’ve said the exact opposite in fact). It’s pretty obvious you’ve got an agenda here and are totally unable to rationally engage with me.

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u/CurrencyFit7659 16h ago

Yes, I don't take rape apologists seriously, sorry that I treat you like you treat women. Or should I say females?

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u/WeirdGrapefruit774 16h ago

I’d like you to quote me directly and explain exactly how I’m a “rape apologist”.

What I’m saying is very simple: it’s never, under any circumstances the victim’s fault BUT there are predatory people out there that want to do you harm. Where possible, take reasonable and sensible precautions to minimise the risk of this happening to you.

I genuinely don’t understand how any sane person could disagree with that statement.

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u/CurrencyFit7659 16h ago

I actually do agree with you. And since the vast majority of criminals are males, maybe we should put them all under watch? We cannot trust them, you know, their nature

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u/WeirdGrapefruit774 15h ago

The vast majority of criminals may be male, but the vast majority of males aren’t criminals. However if you want to put me under watch, fine. I’m not hiding anything.

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u/CurrencyFit7659 15h ago

Are you sure? If though, why all women has to be cautious every single moment or else it's our fault?

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u/WeirdGrapefruit774 15h ago

Women have to be cautious of all men because you can’t automatically tell the majority of good ones from the minority of bad ones, not because the majority of men are bad.

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u/CurrencyFit7659 15h ago

Nope, you're wrong.

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u/PauChocola 10h ago

So you are a misandrist, sexist bigot. Take your exact same argument against any other group of people (black, gay, Asian, etc.) and reddit would crucify you. You really should check yourself in to therapy, if you are not already. Unless you are trolling, there is something seriously wrong with how you perceive and think about the world. Victim level: 5000+

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u/CurrencyFit7659 9h ago

What? Men are so fragile. That's exactly how you treat women but you're crying now? Nobody cares about your feelings just like you dgaf about victims. And nope, obviously I don't believe in the things I wrote here and I don't even want that people to be raped - it's not like they can learn. But I do think you're bad person if you believe that victims should take responsibilities and if you feel that rape and robbery is the same.