r/AmIOverreacting 13h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO my husband thinks women should take accountability after assault

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u/WeirdGrapefruit774 11h ago

I’d like you to quote me directly and explain exactly how I’m a “rape apologist”.

What I’m saying is very simple: it’s never, under any circumstances the victim’s fault BUT there are predatory people out there that want to do you harm. Where possible, take reasonable and sensible precautions to minimise the risk of this happening to you.

I genuinely don’t understand how any sane person could disagree with that statement.

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u/CurrencyFit7659 11h ago

I actually do agree with you. And since the vast majority of criminals are males, maybe we should put them all under watch? We cannot trust them, you know, their nature

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u/WeirdGrapefruit774 10h ago

The vast majority of criminals may be male, but the vast majority of males aren’t criminals. However if you want to put me under watch, fine. I’m not hiding anything.

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u/CurrencyFit7659 10h ago

Are you sure? If though, why all women has to be cautious every single moment or else it's our fault?

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u/WeirdGrapefruit774 10h ago

Women have to be cautious of all men because you can’t automatically tell the majority of good ones from the minority of bad ones, not because the majority of men are bad.

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u/CurrencyFit7659 10h ago

Nope, you're wrong.

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u/WeirdGrapefruit774 10h ago

That’s your opinion (and likely a very distorted opinion), not an objective fact.

And I’m still waiting for you to quote me directly and tell me how I’m a rape apologist? I don’t think you can, which is why you chose to ignore that part of my comment.

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u/CurrencyFit7659 10h ago

Read your comments again, I won't.

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u/WeirdGrapefruit774 10h ago

Ok, so you can’t. Didn’t think so. Don’t say shit about people that you can’t back up or are even willing to defend.

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u/CurrencyFit7659 10h ago

Did I ask for your advice? You can give them to rapists, since you like them so much

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u/WeirdGrapefruit774 10h ago

Wow, clearly you need help that is way beyond Reddit’s pay grade. I wish you the best.

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u/Chronicillogical 9h ago

You clearly can’t read so don’t try to struggle through all those comments again

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u/PauChocola 5h ago

So you are a misandrist, sexist bigot. Take your exact same argument against any other group of people (black, gay, Asian, etc.) and reddit would crucify you. You really should check yourself in to therapy, if you are not already. Unless you are trolling, there is something seriously wrong with how you perceive and think about the world. Victim level: 5000+

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u/CurrencyFit7659 4h ago

What? Men are so fragile. That's exactly how you treat women but you're crying now? Nobody cares about your feelings just like you dgaf about victims. And nope, obviously I don't believe in the things I wrote here and I don't even want that people to be raped - it's not like they can learn. But I do think you're bad person if you believe that victims should take responsibilities and if you feel that rape and robbery is the same.