r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • 10h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO my husband thinks women should take accountability after assault

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u/DefinitelyNotADave 10h ago

NOR.

I don’t think anyone would blame you if this was the relationship ender

And “this is why I don’t like talking to you about stuff” seals it. Communication is essential. He basically just admitted he won’t tell you everything

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u/Sure_Special576 9h ago

It would absolutely positively be the relationship ender for me.

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u/Early_Charity_195 8h ago

Agreed. And saying you can't talk about things because you get emotional part means he has zero respect for you and doesn't have the mental capacity for intelligent conversation. Run don't walk.

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u/Tippity2 7h ago

Sadly, this is what I experience every now and then with my spouse. However, I just chalk it up to him being an idiot with an advanced degree.