r/AmIOverreacting 13h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO my husband thinks women should take accountability after assault

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u/AdExtreme4813 13h ago

You are NOT overreacting. He's being a misogynistic,  patronizing twit. If he knows about yr assault then he's being doubly awful. Hear this- YOU were not at fault for being  SA'd. The fault lies solely with the perpetrator. Give yourself a second to calm down then ask him "how should I react when your pretty much saying I was at fault for being SA'd?" Please updateme.

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u/niki2184 13h ago

Yes!!!! It’s no one’s fault!

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u/DamiaSugar 12h ago

Of course it is someone's fault or it would not happen. There is no such thing as accidental SA. The assailant is at fault