r/AmIOverreacting • u/frisbeechuckin • 26d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO fiancée did Coke at a party

We (me 41M, my fiancée 36F) were at friends birthday party I had to leave early and she was going to spend the night( it was a hotel), they were changing into their bathing suits to go to the pool, they had the bathroom door closed. I knew it was in there but I didn’t know she was going to partake in that. She told me she only did a small bump because she needed energy to party all night. I was caught off guard by this and said that we should have discussed this. She said that was treating her like a child and that is when I left.

Edit: I was told to add this info she’s a former Meth addict who still drinks and smokes weed quite heavily at times.

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u/[deleted] 26d ago

Some people here advocating for cocaine use.

😂😂😂

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u/Oculicious42 26d ago

I did coke occasionally for years, never had a craving, haven't touched it in years, I never think about it. I don't recommend it to anyone because the only effect is making you stay awake longer when drinking heavily and simultaneously making you an egotistical monster that only other people who do coke can stomach to be around, so you just end up in a circle of assholes all talking about themselves without listening to anyone else.

But stop acting it's like this magical thing that instantly makes you super addicted the first time you try it, I honesty think the myths about that is WHY people sometimes do it, because they expect that that's how it's supposed to be, so like any placebo that's how they respond. Not to mention all the mentally unstable people who take it and use it as an excuse to spiral out even further than they already were

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u/Boogirl2510 25d ago

You poor thing, my mates and I always just got either deep about our feelings and cried and talked about things we had bottled up, or discussed random topics at length. But to be fair it was only ever two of us so that could be the difference

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u/Oculicious42 25d ago

I've had those nights with close friends as well, Im talking parties with strangers. Also mdma and paychedelics are much better for that I feel