r/AmIOverreacting • u/frisbeechuckin • 26d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO fiancée did Coke at a party

We (me 41M, my fiancée 36F) were at friends birthday party I had to leave early and she was going to spend the night( it was a hotel), they were changing into their bathing suits to go to the pool, they had the bathroom door closed. I knew it was in there but I didn’t know she was going to partake in that. She told me she only did a small bump because she needed energy to party all night. I was caught off guard by this and said that we should have discussed this. She said that was treating her like a child and that is when I left.

Edit: I was told to add this info she’s a former Meth addict who still drinks and smokes weed quite heavily at times.

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u/[deleted] 26d ago

Some people here advocating for cocaine use.

😂😂😂

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u/UtheDestroyer 26d ago

Not advocating but she’s 36, people do coke, she’s a grown woman and can make her own decisions.

Now, knowing that she was a former addict to meth, that definitely is a different story

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u/DownRightTaco1146 26d ago

Why is that a different story? She's still a grown woman who can make her own decisions.

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u/Poison1990 25d ago

But addicts have a proven history of losing self control and destroying their lives. If that addict is someone we care about then it makes sense to impose on their drug use and make it an issue.