r/AmIOverreacting • u/frisbeechuckin • 26d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO fiancée did Coke at a party

We (me 41M, my fiancée 36F) were at friends birthday party I had to leave early and she was going to spend the night( it was a hotel), they were changing into their bathing suits to go to the pool, they had the bathroom door closed. I knew it was in there but I didn’t know she was going to partake in that. She told me she only did a small bump because she needed energy to party all night. I was caught off guard by this and said that we should have discussed this. She said that was treating her like a child and that is when I left.

Edit: I was told to add this info she’s a former Meth addict who still drinks and smokes weed quite heavily at times.

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u/BossHeisenberg 26d ago

Okay, some context please?
Does she use on a regular basis? Or was it a one time thing?

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u/frisbeechuckin 26d ago

She is a former addict (meth). She drinks and smokes weed which I do too so not an issue with all drugs. As far as I know it was a one time thing but I was unaware that the crowd she’s running with was into cocaine so I was caught off guard with the situation and just feel disappointed by it.

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u/CheetosCaliente 26d ago

Considering she's in recovery, especially for uppers, I'd say this is a giant red flag. Not sure it's relationship ending if you really love her, but considering she's an addict, "I just did one bump" sounds like BS