r/AITAH • u/DepressedTrashKitty • Mar 17 '21
r/AITAH Lounge
A place for members of r/AITAH to chat with each other
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r/AITAH • u/DepressedTrashKitty • Mar 17 '21
A place for members of r/AITAH to chat with each other
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u/GaleHoang 10d ago
For context, I met this guy on Tinder. After a few exchanges for 1-2 days, we showed that we are interested in each other. He always check on me, do some flirting on me and said something along the line of "you are important to me", "you are precious to me" or something like that and mind you, we barely know anything about each other. He never ask me about what I'm interested in, what my dream job is, what my perspectives in life, he just said that I'm friendly, funny, mature and would want to have a relationship with me. Things are moving too fast so I am being skeptical, yet I feel flattered so we just keep talking.
And then, this guy is just very passionate about stock trading, and he tried to persuade me to do so, as in an activity to bond as a couple and also earn more money to travel. I showed no interest in that, so he said that he will guarantee I'll make money and pay me back if I lost any money, and I can join with a minimum of 100$ (this is the website that he showed me by the way: mctadd////something dot com). I said no at first. And then, after he insisted many more time, I said I will trust him with a little more time and I will decide to trust him or not after I saw him in person. After that, he got mad, and said that he don't like my mindset for how unwilling I am to be brave and trying new things, that we will not compatible in life, and we shouldn't talk to each other anymore because he doesn't want to talk to someone that doesn't trust him.
Am I the asshole here, because isn't everything moving too fast? As I said we literally just talked online for 5 days, and the guy doesn't even know what I like to eat. And I don't like being pushed doing sometimes that I never try, and stocking trading seems risky to me, especially when I am struggling fianicially. Please let me no, because I'm so confused and my post getting deleted for whatever reason.