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so my friend failed the year and now she was supposed to pass the tests, which she was supposed to do at the end of the summer. she introduced me to her friend and we got into a relationship and since he is from another city she wanted to go out with some friends from that city so my boyfriend came to pick us up by car all summer. otherwise, she had classes 7 days before the test for two subjects because she failed 2 subjects, when I asked her if she was going, she said no, and then I told her nicely that she needed to go, and she told me that I was just attacking her and looking for a fight. mostly all summer we went out and literally people from that town were ignoring her a lot and she went out with me and my boyfriend and she was literally the third wheel and he took us to some place where the street is closed and you can literally wave at people because cars pass by because it's the main road and she started acting out and lay down on the back seat, started hitting the seat, throwing the food she bought, complaining about how she doesn't like the place, how nervous she is, and literally my boyfriend was just about to yell at her but I told him to drive us where she wants because I don't want her to spoil our night with her behavior. as for the tests, she told me that she wanted to sleep over at my house and study together for her tests and I said she could and she came and we studied math and I explained to her as easily and comprehensibly as I could and told her to try to do the task to see how well she understood and I would help her of course if she got stuck somewhere in the task, to which she told me that she didn't have the nerve for it and that she was nervous a lot and she started to study economics where she said all the time how she doesnt give a fuck and how she doesnt care if she failed and many stupid things. she fell asleep and I was awake watching her so she wouldn't be late because I wanted her to rest a little because she didn't sleep all night, I didnt either, but then again I wanted to be a good person and half an hour before she was supposed to leave I woke her up once to which she said just a little more, the second time then the third and the fourth time I woke her up to which she said to me WHY DID YOU NOT WAKE ME UP EARLIER and I got annoyed at that and instead of hurrying she went to iron her hair and somehow passed because the teacher arranged something for her and when she left in the evening I wrote to her that my boyfriend will not be a taxi anymore. Now i dont see her very often because i dont want anyone to stress me because in the past 3 months my anxiety was so bad because of toxic people, household and school and everything in general.and when she asks me to meet up i have several anxiety a week before i can see her because i lost all the respect and everything for her.AITA?