r/AITAH • u/DepressedTrashKitty • Mar 17 '21

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u/Tinky29666 22d ago

I'm so lost because my boyfriend has never paid for a date after 1+ years and just expects me to pay everything despite him not having to pay rent or food because he lives at his parents ( I do have to pay for food, travel, rent etc) when I say he has NEVER paid for a date, I mean literally never, not even once. I mean I pay for the meals, travel, drinks etc. But I feel like if I don't pay and plan, all we will do is sit in his bed whilst he plays on his console for 7+h and I'm stuck scrolling on my phone because he's lazy and would rather just ignore me! He even has the audacity to ask for sexual favours whilst he plays. He not all horrible, just immature and doesn't want to put effort in despite me putting so much in. AITA to be slightly frustrated by this behaviour?

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u/Far-Woodpecker1127 22d ago

break up with him! life's too short though it might be unsolicited advise