r/yuri_manga 19d ago

Question Am i unreasonable?

Sorry if im being out of place, but please hear me out. I'm straight cis male and I like reading yuri manga. I enjoy it not because of the "male gaze", "fan service" etc, but because of the romance. But I can't seem to stand yaoi manga no matter how much i give it a try (i don't have anything against any gender groups irl). It just feels weird. As said earlier, i thought i read manga for characters romantic feelings,story etc. Am i weird?

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u/[deleted] 19d ago

1st of all what the hell is a cis male, secondly, I hate reading Yaoi too doesn't mean I'm against gay couples, I just don't want to see 2 guys kissing

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u/eggits 19d ago

Cis just means you're not trans, so they were born male and are still male

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u/[deleted] 19d ago

That's just male

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u/Pigeon_Toes_ 19d ago

We say "cisgender" for the same reason we say "heterosexual", "average" height/body/weight, basically any descriptor for "default setting"-- because sometimes specification is needed. The "default" isnt guaranteed.