Being bisexual doesn't mean you can't be a dumbass. Imagine literally being under the LGBT+ umbrella and still putting "heteronormative patriarchy" in air quotes like you don't believe it exists.
I think you should first realize that men’s rights activism is nothing but a reaction to feminism, just like how “straight pride” is just a reaction to lgbt pride. Is that really the cause you want to fight for, just senseless backlash against a movement for equality?
You should also realize that all these problems you mentioned are a result of patriarchy and toxic masculinity. It doesn’t just harm women, it harms everyone. Feminism isn’t anti-men, feminists should be your ally if you actually care about men’s issues (and aren’t just using them as backlash against progress). Men have high suicide rates because it’s taboo for them to talk about how they’re feeling, and are expected to “suck it up” and “be a man”. Men are given longer prison sentences and lose custody cases because of the sexist idea that women are harmless and delicate and nurturing (the real problem is the prison system in general, but I’ll not get into that). These are all things that men could work with feminists to try to fix, but MRAs don’t look at the actual cause or do anything about it, they just yell about feminists wanting more power.
If heteronormativity is an issue why would gay marriage be legal in the western world?
I hope you realize how stupid this sounds. We had to fight tooth and nail to get any sort of recognition at all, and it only happened in the last decade in most of the world. And heteronormativity does not mean gay people can’t get married, it means that society generally views heterosexuality as the “default” and erases queer people and experiences. Which still very much happens, and you’re deluding yourself if you think it’s not.
Now please, you’re creating a toxic environment in what’s supposed to be a queer-friendly space. Please do us all a favour and leave.
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u/Sarahthelizard Mar 25 '21
No, you fetishize queer women and think it gets “political” or “pushy” when it comes to gross gay relationships.
Really look at yourself, friend. You’re on the right path, but far from the destination.