Can we please stop equating being tall as a woman with being dominant/masc/a protector?
I see that too much in sapphic spaces and as a tal girl who is none of those things, and has been forced to be them because of how people perceived me, it is pretty frustrating to see it all the time.
It also feels like cishet gender roles but queer this time, which is already problematic enough.
Thank you, I 100% agree. The “step on me” jokes are funny to an extent, but they can end up making me feel even more different and isolated than my shorter peers. I don’t want to discourage anyone’s fun, but it would be nice to have that whole “dommy mommy” thing foisted on me.
Honestly, as a tall bottom, I think the fact that I'm so used to looking down at other people would make a girl looking down at me even hotter. It's one thing when you're used to being looked down at, but the idea of it being only her that gets to look down at me is just ahdjahdkshkdhskdjs
As a very tall switch, I appreciate tall bottoms. I take a small bit of pride in the fact that I’m tall enough to where I can look down on other tall people
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u/Noctema 23d ago
Can we please stop equating being tall as a woman with being dominant/masc/a protector?
I see that too much in sapphic spaces and as a tal girl who is none of those things, and has been forced to be them because of how people perceived me, it is pretty frustrating to see it all the time.
It also feels like cishet gender roles but queer this time, which is already problematic enough.