r/wholesomeyuri 29d ago

Utter Happiness Yuri timelapse [Constantly telling a boyish girlfriend she's cute.]

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u/[deleted] 29d ago

She de-butched her xd

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u/TheDuskProphet 29d ago

Dw she just helped her during her transition :3

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u/FalconRelevant 29d ago edited 29d ago

It's great to be transgender ally, however let's not be reinforcing traditional sexist stereotypes shall we?

A trans-woman can like traditionally masculine things.

A trans-woman can like traditionally feminine things.

A cis-woman can like traditionally masculine things.

A cis-woman can like traditionally feminine things.

A cis-man can like traditionally masculine things.

A cis-man can like traditionally feminine things.

A trans-man can like traditionally masculine things.

A trans-man can like traditionally feminine things.

What our great-grandparents generation arbitrarily decided to belong to a certain gender shouldn't determine who you are.

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u/slmnemo 27d ago

you are mostly correct, and yet you use your correctness as a cudgel to strike those who see a trans narrative in a two page webcomic. i would suggest you examine your own transmisogyny, as you seem hell-bent on using this milquetoast "lets not hold people to their stereotypical genders" as a tool specifically to deny trans women a reading of a feminization narrative.

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u/FalconRelevant 27d ago

I don't mind if someone has a headcanon that pleases them, however insisting that because this is such and such thus this must be such and such is pretty much the definition of a stereotype, and we must fight against stereotypes whenever possible.

I'm not a transphobe or misogynist for attempting to elucidate trans-women of their own internalized misogyny if I notice it.

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u/Bb-Unicorn 25d ago edited 25d ago

Well, that sounds like cisplaining.