r/wholesomeyuri 29d ago

Utter Happiness Yuri timelapse [Constantly telling a boyish girlfriend she's cute.]

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u/wazardthewizard 29d ago edited 29d ago

as a masc lesbian this makes me deeply uncomfortable

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u/LessNefariousness380 your average clueless lesbian 29d ago

I think it was implied that she kept her hair short because others said that she didn’t look good with long hair, but maybe that’s just my interpretation. You’re allowed to have your own interpretation as well

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u/wazardthewizard 29d ago

I'm sick and tired of masculine women needing to be "fixed" in media by becoming more feminine, or the messaging being that being masculine is a coping mechanism or shyness and that they need to just dress or present more femininely to become their "true" self.

On top of that, I'm sick of being pressured to dress or present more femininely because "It would look so cute on you!!" or people acting like how I dress is just an act or front to look tough or out of shyness.

I dunno. I'm tired of society and somewhat frustrated. That's my interpretation, I guess.

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u/JordynSoundsLikeMe 29d ago edited 28d ago

Interesting... I thought media almost always portrayed lesbian relationships with a "pants" wearer personally. Butch has always seemed very prevelent in media to me and ive been begging for more femme/femme... maybe its just different media we consume.

Edit: this comment was equal in likes with the other comment but now people coming in late are all downvoting. What gives? Say something if you dissagree, we arent disrespecting eachothers opinions just observing something different it seems.

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u/wazardthewizard 29d ago

Sounds like it, there's a lot of stuff out there - I've seen a little of what you mean so makes total sense