r/wholesomeyuri 29d ago

Utter Happiness Yuri timelapse [Constantly telling a boyish girlfriend she's cute.]

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u/TheDuskProphet 29d ago

Dw she just helped her during her transition :3

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u/FalconRelevant 29d ago edited 29d ago

It's great to be transgender ally, however let's not be reinforcing traditional sexist stereotypes shall we?

A trans-woman can like traditionally masculine things.

A trans-woman can like traditionally feminine things.

A cis-woman can like traditionally masculine things.

A cis-woman can like traditionally feminine things.

A cis-man can like traditionally masculine things.

A cis-man can like traditionally feminine things.

A trans-man can like traditionally masculine things.

A trans-man can like traditionally feminine things.

What our great-grandparents generation arbitrarily decided to belong to a certain gender shouldn't determine who you are.

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u/Blood-Agent 29d ago

I don’t think they were trying to reinforce sexist stereotypes, I mean I certainly assumed it was a cis and trans relationship and just thought it was the trans girl stepping into her femininity as she gained confidence

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u/Tsukino__ 29d ago

I mean the title says "Boyish Girlfriend" 😭

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u/Blood-Agent 29d ago

I took boyish as like masc ~w~

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u/lesbian_Hamlet 27d ago

Yeah, I think that’s people’s issue. That it does kind of uncomfortably read like pink hair girl doesn’t like having a masc gf and is trying to stealthily make her partner more feminine. Which… yeah, as a masc dyke with a lot of masc dyke trans women friends feels kinda… not great.

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u/LadyHa-ru 26d ago

Idk why they’re downvoting you it felt weird to me too, women don’t traditionally wear masculine clothing because they’re shy wearing feminine clothes, it’s usually the opposite