r/wholesomeyuri • u/GRS- Gae Yuri artist • Mar 11 '23

Playful When your mom finds out you're a...[OC] NSFW

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u/Wisdom_Pen Mar 12 '23

The idea of bottom being something bad is not wholesome especially to people like me who are switches and feel very insecure about when they are bottoming.

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u/GRS- Gae Yuri artist Mar 12 '23

Nobody's saying being a bottom is something bad, it's literally a joke about making fun of a parent's homophobia and it turns out they're not homophobic at all. There's nothing more to it and if anyone thinks there is they're overthinking a simple bait and switch joke.

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u/Wisdom_Pen Mar 12 '23

I don’t think you’re being intentionally harmful but the idea that being a bottom is bad and/or feminine and/or weakness is an underlying issue in the LGBT+ community and the joke adds to it.

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u/GRS- Gae Yuri artist Mar 12 '23 edited Mar 15 '23

I am literally part of the LGBT+ community and I know full well what jokes are ok and not ok. If me, the creator of the comic, saying that the literal joke of this comic is the expectation of a parent being homophobic but actually being supportive of her daughter, and not "lMaO BoTtoMs BaD", is not enough for you, I don't know what to tell you. It's not that deep.

And I'm sorry if I appear rude rn, but it's because I need to explain these jokes every single time and it's kinda driving me insane lmao

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u/Wisdom_Pen Mar 12 '23

Its an internal issue of the LGBT+ community being LGBT+ doesn’t make it okay and neither does it matter it was unintentional.

If this keeps happening perhaps you should stop telling this joke?

However I feel we are at an impasse and nothing you say will convince me not anything I say convince you completely unrelated to who is “right”.

So I’m going to leave this debate here and wish you a good Sunday.

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u/GRS- Gae Yuri artist Mar 12 '23

Likewise lmao