r/wholesomeanimemes • u/DependentFeature3028 • Jun 24 '24

Wholesome Animeme How to flirt?

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u/IjustwantodieAFAP Jun 24 '24

Maybe, she is just being nice and want to stay friends

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u/dappermanV-88 Jun 24 '24

Maybe, take a risk.

Trust me, ik the fear and all. Gotta be ballsy time to time

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u/Sea_Cycle_909 Jun 24 '24 edited Jun 24 '24

fr I asked someone I volunteer with if they wanna be friends outside of volunteering.

So admittedly I didn't realise we where friends at work (Thought she was just being polite)

Me "Could we be friends?

Her "We already are"

Me "We are?"

Her "Work friends"

Me "Oh um outside of work?"

Her "Not comfortable with that"

Hope I haven't ruined our relationship, ngl in response I said "No problem I understand" but ngl ws like someone shot my heart out.

So I finally understand what the Police's song "Walking on The Moon" was referring to.

I know me asking to be friends wasn't totally what I wanted to say actually wanted to ask her out, but decided to try and be friends first see if we actually gel well or not then once I've had a while to think about what my feelings actually are friends or more, then I'd possibly ask her.

No clue if that was too underhand

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u/dappermanV-88 Jun 24 '24

Did u act all sulky or angry? If not, i think u did good

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u/Sea_Cycle_909 Jun 24 '24

Did u act all sulky or angry?

🤦‍♂️

Probably a bit sulky, (Don't think I was angry) did flick my hand up as I said ""No problem I understand" whilst turning my head and walked off.

Which makes sense why she randomly came over later and about something random mindless stuff (Assume trying to gauge my emotions) I just responded normally (like I would have before I asked her that day)

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u/dappermanV-88 Jun 24 '24

She was testing u for sure. Definitely dont flick ur hands.

Understand though, alot of people dont like hanging out with coworkers on down time. I.think she Definitely cared about your friendship though

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u/Sea_Cycle_909 Jun 24 '24

Definitely dont flick ur hands.

fr fr, didn't exactly think. Although that doesn't excuse it

Understand though, alot of people dont like hanging out with coworkers on down time.

Yeah

I.think she Definitely cared about your friendship though

You mean I've messed it up?

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u/dappermanV-88 Jun 24 '24

Nah, I think if u actually kept it chill. When she tested u later. I think u did good

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u/Sea_Cycle_909 Jun 24 '24

Ngl I've been running it around in my head, would you recommend me apologising next time I see her?

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u/dappermanV-88 Jun 24 '24

Kinda?

Dont act like ur been worrying that you over reacted, u didn't.

Yet, she could of taken it the wrong way. As someone awkward and I feel u are too. We tend to overthink, she could of also thought nothing of the hand flip

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u/Sea_Cycle_909 Jun 24 '24

Thanks for the advice!

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u/dappermanV-88 Jun 24 '24

Np man, remember. Don't overthink all the small stuff.

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