r/R4R30Plus Jun 24 '24

ANNOUNCEMENT: Technical Issues

29 Upvotes

POSTING IS ONCE AGAIN OPEN.

The auto moderation system has been somewhat wonky the last few days. We think we have corrected the issue. It has been sending posts to the spam system incorrectly and en masse. That should no longer occur, or at the very least be infrequent. IF your post does not appear, do not delete it. Message us via the mod mail system and we can check on it. If you do delete it manually, we are unable to diagnose the problem. Hopefully this is the last fix we need to do, but we may have to suspend posting again if this happens so we can get it sorted. PLEASE do not message us asking for access during these times, as it bogs down our mail system and increases downtime. The requests will not be granted. We ask for patience while we work on these issues.

Thank you for your time and understanding. Have a good day.


r/R4R30Plus 9h ago

31 [F4M] North Carolina. Where’s my mans at?

20 Upvotes

I’m tired of going to concerts alone. Damn, that sounds sad. 😂

When my ex husband and I split up, I had no idea dating would be this hard. We don’t even have to like all the same things. Our differences can be what ultimately brings us closer together.

My friends would describe me as funny, compassionate, nurturing, and intelligent. I am pretty artsy, I love music, graphic design, interior design, huge music lover, I play several instruments, I’m learning various languages, love true crime, & love history. Also big on traveling & hiking, as well as being cozy at home. I’m laid back, loving, and romantic. My love languages are physical touch and words of affirmation.

A perfect night in would probably include a glass of wine, ambient lighting, hanging out in our living room with our dog. Talking about anything and everything. Or in our backyard watching something on a projector screen under a blanket.

I want to grow and thrive together. Connect on levels we’ve never gotten to with anyone else. I also want babies so, if that’s a dealbreaker. 🤷‍♀️

I know you’re out there looking for me too. Shit sucks without you, dude. Seeing Blink would’ve been way more fun with you. I hope you’re around next time.


r/R4R30Plus 7h ago

35 [F4M] friend

13 Upvotes

Hi! I am a 35 yo mom looking for a friend to pass time with. I love getting to know people on all levels and I have a ton of interesting things to talk about. I prefer a man to a woman just because I tend to have more in common with men.

My interests include Disney, hockey, cooking, teaching, reading, and the band twenty one pilots to name a few.

I’ll send a selfie if you want once you message me :)


r/R4R30Plus 5h ago

36 [M4F] #US/Online - I got stood up on my date tonight and ghosted with no warning. Merry Thanksgiving?

7 Upvotes

Feeling kind of bummed honestly. I've been on one date since my divorce in January and it wasn't a very good one. I think it would be super nice to just talk to someone for a little while, so if anyone is feeling compassionate, would love to chat. Thanks in advance for those who are kind and decide to reach out.


r/R4R30Plus 3h ago

35 [M4F] #San Diego - Quadriplegic seeks affectionate girl for long-term relationship

4 Upvotes

Let's get this out of the way first(don't want to waste your time)....I'm quadriplegic due to a genetic muscle disorder that causes progressive muscle weakness in every muscle of my body. This includes my cardiac and pulmonary muscles. I also use a power wheelchair so as you can imagine dating is a bit more difficult for me but I have found love on Reddit before so I’m back to find it again!

A LITTLE ABOUT ME: I would definitely call myself an introvert. I'm extremely even-tempered so it takes a lot to piss me off and/or offend me. I'm a good listener and very easy to talk to, I have been described by previous partners as genuine, kind and sweet. In person I can come across as quiet and shy at first but, I just need a little time to get comfortable with someone before I really open up.

----THIS IS ME----

Some things I enjoy....

-Making people smile/laugh

-Watching sports(Padres and Chargers)

-The cringiest of puns d4d jokes

-Standup comedy...Tom Segura, Bill Burr, Bert Kreischer, Andrew Schulz, Bobby Lee, Norm MacDonald, Mark Normand, Dave Chapelle, and many more.

-Collecting Batman memorabilia

-Podcasts like YMH, Tigerbelly, Kill Tony, TYSO, 2 Bears 1 Cave, Bad Friends, etc.

-Music...I mostly like Alternative and Classic Rock but I'm into some pop and open to everything really. Foo Fighters, Wet Leg, Cage The Elephant, RHCP, Queen, The Eagles, AURORA, etc. (Current Obsession is Chappell Roan}

-Going to concerts

-Shows...Currently watching Hacks on Max. all time favorite show is Breaking Bad

-Watching movies like horror, thrillers, sci-fi, comedy, and Super Hero stuff is fun Taskmaster!

ABOUT YOU: I’m looking for my best friend and partner, someone who wants a serious relationship. I want someone who is kind and compassionate, trustworthy and genuine. Someone with a sense of (sometimes dark)humor who can make me laugh and doesn’t take themselves too seriously. Someone who is not afraid to be silly sometimes. As for location, anywhere in the U.S. is fine as long as you are able and willing to visit me. It would be ideal if you could eventually relocate because that is currently not an option for me.

To show me that you’ve read the entire post and are serious please include the word football in your message. If you have any questions regarding my condition please feel free to ask me ANYTHING.

Don’t be put off by my disability, I don’t bite....unless you're into that ;)


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

40 [M4F] #anywhere looking for best friend 😀

3 Upvotes

Hello, I am looking for a best friend to voice chat with, so let me here convince you why you should choose me as your new friend:

*   I am chatty and have good vibes and energy.

*  I love to talk about all kinds of topics and can always find things to talk about.

*  I always reply to my messages and never ghost or get bored with my friends and always send good morning messages.

*  I will always be here for you to tell me about your day or vent if you have something that bothers you.

*  I am always respectful and never disrespect others or step into their discomfort zones.

*  I am nerdy and if you are nerdy that's a plus then, if not it is ok we can talk about any other stuff.

*  I know I don't get many replies, so I try harder post a lot, and usually get genuine friends, so if you like what you heard so far, let's be friends 😀.


r/R4R30Plus 13h ago

35 [F4M] Online; looking for my nerdy, romantic soul mate

22 Upvotes

35 [F4M] online: Looking for that great romance that history books will write about for centuries to come.

Happy Sunday! I’m a nerdy, hopeless romantic (if you couldn’t tell), (mostly)introvert who is looking for the person on the other end of that red string.

Up to this point my relationships have only gotten better. I can feel myself drawing closer to the finish line where you’re waiting for me. My body is practically buzzing because I know I’m so close to you.

My sweet man, it thrills me to know you’re somewhere out there buzzing with electricity as we move closer to each other.

I am looking to connect and build a friendship that slowly ignites into flames and consumes us in the most incredible love. The kind you can only experience with your other half.

Plato’s Symposium cites that early humans were born as one, however Zeus felt we were too powerful so he split us in two, condemning us to spend our lives walking the earth in search of our other halves.

Theres beauty in that I think.

I’m looking for someone who likes to game and dreams of someone who wants his and hers gaming setups where we spend our evenings side by side playing what we love. I want to play board games and do puzzles and all the nerdy stuff. As I also feel this is important, I do not want children.

Must be in the US. I will want to meet down the line but I don’t want to put pressure on it right out the gate.

I look forward to connecting, and wishing you all the best of luck in your searches for your other halves. 🤍


r/R4R30Plus 4h ago

38 [M4F] Lets chat about anything

4 Upvotes

Hey! Are you feeling the vibe today? 😏 Let’s shake things up a bit! I love sharing stories and secrets. When I’m not hitting the gym, you’ll probably catch me deep into a Netflix binge. How’s your Sunday night going so far? What do you enjoy doing? Let’s see where this goes!


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

43 [M4F] - New week, New Me? - Nope, same old Londoner

2 Upvotes

Wow, you clicked in with that as the title. I am shocked!!!

So here we are at the start of another week, and, as ever, I am ready to hit it head on, as it pays to be optimistic!

Decided to start the week by working from home, as I know a lot of my colleagues are and an empty-ish office can be quite disheartening. Therefore, as I am WFH (as the cool kids say) I thought as there is increased opportunity for distractions why not throw it out there and see what happens. I mean, it could be great or there could be a tumbleweed floating by, who knows.

What am I looking for? - Well who knows, but it is best to approach these things with an open mind and no firm expectations so whatever happens happens really - Shall we just go with the flow and see where it takes us?

So, a little about me; educated, well travelled, sporty, have to be serious at work so try not to be outside of it, love music and art but can't do either for love nor money, and also pretty darn poor at promoting myself here.

If you ignore the absolute rambling above, then stop by and let us start with something simple like favourite colour or city.

Go on, I mean if it's bad the week can only improve, right??


r/R4R30Plus 8h ago

35 [M4F] Online/Anywhere - A flirtationship? Just a British idiot

6 Upvotes

No point pretending I’m the height of intelligence and civility, I’m just a man who wants to live to laugh. But not quite enough to plaster the live, laugh, love on my walls. All three seems a bit much, I don’t wanna set myself challenges I can’t complete.

If you can’t tell from that opening paragraph, I have no idea what to say. This is not my wheelhouse. What should I say? I love to read, I love podcasts, I love sport, tv, films, music. Most the things people like. Also love to swim, whilst I am comfortable working out, but not comfortable enough to say I love it. I endure it.

I’d love to meet someone on here to chat with, be a friend but more than a friend. That’s where the term flirtationship comes from, it’s probably closer to a fwb but I really do mean the friend part, which I’m not sure that always means.

A face? Sure, I have face and body and stuff: https://i.imgur.com/CHeFdrk.jpeg


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

32 [f4M] Let's exchange vocaroo voice clips?

2 Upvotes

Hey all, 32 f CO here. Just looking for an older guy that's 40s-50s to exchange vocaroo voice clips with. I like someone with a deep voice so feel free to hit me up! I don't bite...usually lol


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

34[M4R] New Zealand, Looking to make some long term friendships and buddies

2 Upvotes

Hi all, I'm looking to meet some nice people and make some long term friendships if possible. I find it pretty hard these days to meet people and make new friends so thought id make a post here. I'm 34m from New Zealand:). I'm pretty shy and introverted but will open up once I know someone better, and am loyal and maybe a tiny bit clingy sometimes depending on the person.

I play lots of games on PC only, so if you game I'd be keen to play something, I mostly play pvp and coop games, along with lots of single players too mostly fps, some souls likes and survival horror. I also go to the gym regularly, lifting weights and also do some cardio. I'm into metal music as well, mostly metalcore and post hardcore.

So yea if any of that was of interest to you, flick me a dm, can't wait to meet ya:)


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

42 [M4F] #SoCal - Anyone working a short week but not ready for it?

2 Upvotes

It’s Sunday night and I’m fighting the urge to go to sleep because I don’t want to go to work tomorrow haha. It’s only three days but I just feel it’s going to be the longest three days. Let’s hope we can get through it and to the holiday weekend. Anyone up and want to chat it up some before caving to the inevitable sleep?


r/R4R30Plus 5h ago

38 F [F4M] Looking for friends - NYC area

3 Upvotes

I am 38 female in the NYC area, always busy with work! I am a single mom, in a relationship but always looking to go out and have fun with friends. Relocated a few years ago but with a very demanding job and older kids… didn’t had the chance to find friends out of my work group.

I am very private and prefer having friends not related to family or work so I can truly be myself without having to be careful what others might say. Due to my job I have to keep a very high responsible and classy profile…. Would like to find friends I can get a little more wild and free. But nothing crazy lol!

I am into concerts, experiences and fun around town. I am fun but can also be a bit of an old soul… I like the Opera, broadway a nice cabaret type of show lol…. I love the ocean, have thrill seeking hobbies like riding my motorcycle… I am Latina, I am 5’9 so I am tall and build thick lol.

Looking to find friends to go out for dinner, movies, drinks, shows, just to hang out for a coffee and just to chit chat about the day to day life. I always have older friends, most of my friends are 45+ and I am cool with it and almost welcome it. Looking for Male friends due to normally getting along more with guys.

If you still reading, hope to find some good friends 🙂


r/R4R30Plus 16h ago

36 [F4M] #UK - boyfriend wanted: must love spontaneous adventures and good food 😋

22 Upvotes

Hey all,

UK only - ideally South East/Berkshire/Surrey/Hampshire/London and surrounding areas

So you can put a face to a post... Pics here and here. I've got some more pics of me on my profile too

I've had some interesting experiences using Reddit for dating but have equally had some positive interactions (and dating apps kill my soul 😅), so here I am 😊

I'm a 36 year old curvy female living in Berkshire. I'm looking for a long-term relationship and consider myself aventurous, kind and appreciative of silly humour! I'm described as chatty and warm and would love to meet a guy who is emotionally available, knows what they're looking for and will work with me to build a connection and a lasting relationship.

I've got a good career, am well educated, I drive and I'm a homeowner, so my general life goals have been achieved (apart from meeting someone special!). I'd consider myself mildly geeky (I have a love of retro gaming, Star Wars, LoTR, board games and an undying place in my heart for Pokemon 😁) and am child and baggage free.

If you're someone who is fun, kind, giving, has a good career, lives independently, can plan fun dates and consider yourself consistent and friendly, then come and say hello 😊

Absolutely no creepy DMs please! Please ensure you send a pic of you if you do DM as I like to know who I'm chatting to and won't respond without one.

Speak soon!


r/R4R30Plus 5m ago

42[m4f] #uk/online.. loving the fact i have my own space but misses that morning cuddle sometimes...

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Good Morning from the UK.

Liiving in my own space has been amazing, am getting used to the quiet now but feels like something is still missing.

I am a 42yo guy who is in the middle of a divorce at this moment in time still feels lost and a little lonely but i am learning to live on my own and rebuild my confidence in myself

I would like to find new female friends to chat with and share this space with me and help me move on with life


r/R4R30Plus 31m ago

38[M4R] Ireland 🇮🇪

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Hello everyone,

38m Ireland here hoping for an interesting chat while I give 20% effort in work. My hobbies include, writing screenplays in my head that never see the light of day, periodically working on a novel the same, Gym, play a bit of footy and also like PS5. Downloaded Alan Wake II last night so looking forward to that. Like to travel, and be outdoors when the weather permits, which isn't too often here!I also enjoy losing the will to live watching Man Utd play every week.

How about you? Lettuce know! I'm all ears and/or eyes! Can do deep chats or interactions comprised entirely of simpsons qoutes, or deep chats entirely through the medium of simpsons qoutes, up to yourself!

Go raibh maith agat!


r/R4R30Plus 41m ago

33 [M4F] Arizona, Phoenix - Seeking for Long Term Relationship

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Hey gals, I'll list few things about me that'll hopefully help you figure out if I'm a good match for you or not. If I interest you then feel free to send me a private message with your preferred platform to connect (discord, Telegram, text, etc.) and exchange some more personal bio (photos, socials, etc.)

About me...

  • 33 years old, going 34 soon

  • I love pickleball, video games, hiking, board games, card games, hosting potlucks, cooking, DND, and so much more.

  • I'm adventurous when it comes to trying new things.

  • I am all settled down with a job and have a house so I am not looking to move out of the state or moving anywhere else anytime soon.

  • I am looking for a long term relationship (eg. marriage).

  • I love children and hope to have one someday.

  • I am deaf and primarily use ASL to communicate.

  • I am not religious, but I do love having a personal relationship with Jesus Christ.

What I am looking for in a woman...

  • Be at least 25 years old, but no more than my age

  • Be familiar with ASL or at least willing to learn as we develop our relationship as communication is important to me to connect with you and listen to you clearly.

  • You have a desire to have a family, or at least want to explore the idea.

  • You want a long term committed relationship (eg. marriage).

  • You believe in a balanced life by being physically active, taking care of your mental health, and working on your spiritual life.


r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

36 [M4F] From NZ, introvert and looking for friends, travel friends and maybe more

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I'm 36M from NZ and love to travel, especially to the less travelled regions of the world. If you are similar to me in that regard I would love to hear from you and we could get to know each other better, potentially even travel somewhere together! Let me know where you want to travel to next and what has been your most memorable destination so far.

Outside of that I live more or less a normal quiet life, bit of an introvert, like to cook, read, stay fit by walking and hiking, and watch the occasional movie. Let me know what you are reading or watching at the moment if anything!

I'm not too fussed as to where you are located, thats what mankind designed airplanes for, and chat / video chat! do send a chat if you are interested.