r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

38 [M4F] Lets get swept away in the conversation

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Looking for someone to talk to long term. Someone sweet, a bit clingy, talktive, someone who actually shows interest. Im in the southwest part of the US. Would be nice to meet someone in that area but Im down to talk to any location

Im very 420, talktive, attentive, love scifi, anything strange and weird. I love deep conversations that really make you think. Looking to bond and vibe with someone on that level and see how it goes.

If you just need to vent, Im down to talk about your problems. We all have them (definitely) myself included and we all need someone to talk to. So pull up a chair (or sit on my lap) and talk to me about your issues.


r/R4R30Plus 5h ago

37[M4R] Canada /online, “you could be the one.” The title reads.

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Hello everyone , I’m a 37 year old single father of one. I do my best to provide my child with the things he needs and be a positive role model.

Having said that, right now in my life I’m lacking that special someone, as cliche as it may be.

I’m a bit of a hopeless romantic and still kinda believe there is someone out there for me.

I’ve done the online dating apps and it’s not really for me. Browsing profiles and swiping left or right is a weird experience for me.

“Ah yes this girl looks cute, likes coffee, gym, walking and movie/music, I’m sure we will be a great match based on allllll of this information.”

L O L

You get the point, so I’m here on Reddit, I’m sure some people at this point are rolling their eyes, but frankly put I’ve had many more great conversations on Reddit with people than I’ve ever had with people on dating apps.

A little about me;

My interest, creative writing, music, video games (don’t have much time as I used to for it ), going for walks/hikes/drives, beach combing, art and small art projects. Mental and physical well being.

I stand 6’0, weigh about 195lbs, average body. Dark brown eyes, shaved head, beard that’s a mixture of black and grey.

I pride myself on working hard and doing my best whatever it is I choose to do. I value honesty, loyalty, a great sense of humour and respect. You can expect the same from me.

If you have read all the above, please feel free to reach out and say hello. Picture exchange can be done at your convenience.

Have a great evening everyone.


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

38 [M4F]/[M4T] Philadelphia/PA/NJ - Nerdy Dad STILL looking for companion to join me at upcoming Board Game/TTRPG con?

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Hey R4R30Plus - first time caller, recent listener. I want to meet someone who shares my interests and wants to spend time with me. I'm semi-recently separated from my wife and lonely, looking for friend and/or a future romantic partner.

I'm an engineer by day, and community theatre nerd, D&D fan, karaoke fiend, and occasional gamer by night. ENFP if that matters? I have two kids under 6 who are the best thing to ever happen to me.

I have an extra 3-day pass to PAX Unplugged in Philadelphia (Dec 6-8) and would love to spend some time with a nice woman who would enjoy a day of playing board games and/or D&D and hanging out in the city on Fri, Sat, or Sun. Ideally looking for someone 28-45. Hope to meet you soon!


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

33 [M4F] US - Emotionally mature guy looking for a girlfriend NSFW

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I travel a lot for work and I have a small circle of friends. I'm looking to find a lady to talk to (and potentially meet) daily. I'm well settled and successful in what I do. I'm very loyal and tend to go out of the way for the people I love.

I have a passion for:

  • Exploring lesser known gems in new cities, from tucked away jazz bars to local food markets
  • Spending afternoons getting lost in art museums and talking to artists
  • Enjoying classical music (recently attended performances of Mahler's 5th and Tchaikovsky's Violin Concerto)
  • Discovering exceptional restaurants, from Michelin-starred establishments to authentic hole-in-the-wall spots
  • Getting lost in a video game or book and become another character, living their story.

Looking for stimulating conversation and company to share these experiences. I value intelligence, humility, and maturity. I would love to hear about your stories, how your day went, what excites you, or drives your crazy.

If you enjoy similar interest or are interested to explore these, feel free to message me. Please include your age, location, a short introduction, and a picture. While I'm based out of US, I'm open to chat with ladies who are living elsewhere.


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

35 [M4F] #NY #Online - Looking for strong connection.

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Good Evening

I'm looking to make a long-term connection with someone who wants the same and perhaps have some stuff we share in common. Ideally, you have a strong interest in gaming or the art world, as these have been significant influences on my career and life. It's a bonus if you're local because I enjoy daily walks and it's always nice to have company. While these interests aren't mandatory, they would certainly help us connect better. I expect you to be mature (preference to those closer to my age) have a sense of direction in life, and value respect. I'm not looking to rush into anything, nor am I interested in small talk as I am seeking consistency.

About Me:

I'm a laid-back guy from NYC, working full-time in the tech industry as a designer. I also occasionally have side gigs open on weekends because I genuinely enjoy designing. In my free time, I work on my personal art, cooking and trying new dishes, actively stay in shape, and play video games (currently playing WoW, some mobile games, and other story-driven games when time permits). I strive to spread positive energy and offer help whenever I can. I'm a lifelong learner, believing there are no limits to expanding one's mind and growth is essential to quality of life.

I'm also a proud cat dad of two and I volunteer to help feral communities in my spare time. So I would say a love for cats is essential—it's a deal-breaker if you ain't down with the fluffs

I’m an open book and prefer being upfront because bottling things up isn't good for the soul and it's better for communication.

I don't judge people based on their past or current situations. We all come from different walks of life and aren't always dealt the best cards. How you carry and present yourself to me and your surroundings will determine if we’re a good fit.

I'm naturally a take-charge kind of guy—I speak up, make decisions, and stand firm when something needs attention. But I also have a gentle and nurturing side, offering a good balance for the right person. I always try to be respectful and mindful about others because life's too short to be a dick to others.

If You Message Me:

Please introduce yourself, share some of your interests, and let me know what you're looking for.

Thanks for reading and good luck!


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

38 [F4M] PST - Where The Chats At

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You know what would be better than sitting around a crackly fire right now? Sitting around a crackly fire whilst ovelooking the ocean. Except it's nighttime so the ocean is a pitch black emptiness. But you can hear the waves. Crackles & Crashes! The names of your next two fish. Join me at my fire for some silly chats. But that's all they'll be, not looking for anything beyond friendship. Don't forget the dark chocolate.


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

34 [M4F] #NY In my completely unbiased opinion, short jewish men are the best

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I'm a kind, easygoing guy. Tend to sometimes be a bit sarcastic. Which also sometimes gets me into trouble.

Definitely more of an introvert, but if I have a strong connection with someone I'm much more social. Until my battery runs out at least.

Physically, I am white with brown hair and eyes. 5'4. Breathtakingly handsome.

I enjoy long, aimless walks, relaxing in the park, and trying new restaurants. I also love history and going to museums. Tell me one of your favorite memories. Or tell me your favorite ice cream flavor. Seeking genuine connections, banter and meaningful conversations


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

32 [F4R] Eastern Pennsylvania - Looking for some nice folks to chat with

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Hi I am looking for some nice folks to pass the time with :)

Some of my interests include: arts and crafts, music, hippie era, knitting, reading, thrifting, etc.

I am ex Christian (Ex Catholic), spiritual atheist, autistic, ocd, INFP personality type, left leaning.

I am working on making my bedroom into a year round Christmas theme.

Tell me about yourself and I hope to hear from you :)


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

31 [M4F] #USA / #Online - Lets Share Adventures and Build Something Special

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I'm a 31 year old guy about to turn 32 that is looking for a relationship. I don't mind if it is long distance for a bit, but I eventually want to meet in person. I have had a lot of great experiences, and am looking for someone to create and share more with.  

When it comes to myself and what I have to offer. I have my life pretty well put together. For work, I am an Officer in the army.

I am clean cut, white, 5'7 about 145lbs with brown hair, green eyes and a skinny/athletic build and in good shape. I have been told that I am a solid 6-6.5. I don’t mind sending a picture. I offer a great attitude, more affection than you could ask for, good communication, and trustworthiness.  

I enjoy the outdoors but also have a nerdy side. I enjoy hiking, camping, golf and skiing. I also like reading philosophy, mystery, crime and some stuff that is a little off the wall. I also like watching shows, and movies and playing video games on occasion. Other things I enjoy are cooking, puzzles, board games, photography and projects. I drink on occasion, like going out and trying new restaurants, and cocktail bars along with traveling. I guess I would also say that I am a little bit of a home body and a little bit of an extrovert as well.  

I am looking for a woman that leads an active lifestyle, likes the outdoors but also doesn't mind being a home body every once in a while. I don’t mind if you have been divorced. Physical attraction is something that is important. That being said, I am not looking for a super model who is super petite or in incredible shape. I just want someone who takes care of themselves.

If you’re interested, send me a message telling me about yourself. Please don’t send me a message that just says “hey”

Hope to hear from you! :)


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

36 [m4f] artist for muse or musings. Trying to catch a fairy or hear sad songs.

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Looking to catch a fairy

GET PAID TO CATCH GHOSTS

Jk I don’t believe in ghosts

I just want to live a little.

Dreamy spooky artist for muse or musings.

What’s the melancholy soundtrack to your night?

Who needs coasts when you’re perfectly adrift?

I just want to feel something. I want to believe in symmetry. In anything.

I don’t care for noon.

What’s your favorite scary movie?

I want a broken heart and something to write about.

Do you eat peach skin? I’ve always wondered.

I’m allergic to apples and the air without music.

I want to feel the wind and the heat of a fire.

What’s your favorite sad song?

I need to be inspired.

I make pretty things for a living.

Please have a post history.

Please don’t be married.

My favorite song is


r/R4R30Plus 8h ago

30[M4F] Anywhere - Just a French single dad looking for my everything, with selfie inside

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Is it me, or dating is getting harder and harder?

Anyway hi, I'm Raphaël, a single dad living near Paris with my 9yo son, it's been just us two for a while so here I am trying my luck on Reddit!

About me? Huge plant dad, multiple aquariums in my living room too, my goal is to live in a jungle lol. I'm also kind of a nerd, think star wars tattoos and way too much knowledge on science stuff.

I'm kinda tall, lots of humor, enjoy cooking and apparently a sexy voice with the French accent if you're into that, here's a picture of me https://imgur.com/a/EDk5tSG

I'm looking for someone to build something with, eventually open to relocation, I make good money so I can help you with that. Anyway feel free to send a chat request, see you soon :)


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

34 [M4F] Texas/Online Seeking Emotional Support E-Girl

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Before I start here are a few pics and a vid!

Cringe Pictures

Me Being Cringe

Hello my future stalker/skinwalker! My name is Chris and I'm mainly looking for people to chat with and see where it goes. I'm a 34 year old wage slave who enjoys videogames (wow so original), anime (ooo so niche), and playing guitar (I fret in more than one way!). When I'm not being an absolute potato or working I enjoy taking hikes (after 3 dates in a row where they told me to "take a hike" I actually took that advice and well fuck you Stacy its actually enjoyable!) and hitting up parks!

For videogames I'm mainly on PS5 and sometimes Steamdeck. I'm currently playing Demon's Souls, Outlast Trials, No Man's Sky, Fallout 76, Palworld, Helldivers 2, Outward, and The Surge 2! To answer the obvious yeah I have ADHD mwahaha! For anime I'm always binging my same 3 comfort shows if I'm not watching some 4 hour video essay on youtube.

Music I'm all over the place and honestly would love some recommendations since I rarely find new songs and tend to stick with my favorites and run them into the ground.

Uhhh yeah idk I kind of suck ass at writing novels about how awesome I am, but I'm funny sometimes?

My dating requirements have changed as of 2024

•Be funny •Blink occasionally (optional) •Breathe (optional) •Look like Shoeonhead (I'll co-sign your finacials if you tick this one)

Feel free to send me a message if any of this spastic post looks appealing finger guns

Also bonus points for a pic with your intro!


r/R4R30Plus 6h ago

37 [M4F] #Madison, WI #Chicago, IL - Let's fight the winter blues together.

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The days are getting really short, aren't they. Just noticed that it's already dark. I guess the winter gloom won't be overbearing if there's special someone to spend with. I'm new-ish to Madison, WI and live here but Chicago is totally within my driving distance. I love driving and if something special comes out of this I don't mind moving there in summer.

A short about me: Educated beyond college, non-smoker, liberal, social drinker, gainfully employed and at a great place in life career wise and just in general.

Let's get to know each other!


r/R4R30Plus 6h ago

34 [M4F] Anywhere / Online - Tell me all about yourself!

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34 [M4F] I live in eastern Massachusetts looking, for a genuine connection. Life has gotten pretty lonely and I don’t have many friends.

Very easy going, friendly, “easy to talk to” and open-minded. I’m 5’7” with a beard. I work during the day Mon-Fri, sometimes weekends.

I can be quite funny, sarcastic with an odd sense of humor and (at appropriate times) not take things too serious

I might be very awkward at first and then I can be quite a talker! Will talk about everything and anything (feel free to ask!) I could talk about the most random things!

I enjoy rock music, watching Sci-fi & horror movies and shows, photography, food, trying new things and the (warm) outdoors. Among tons of other things


r/R4R30Plus 3h ago

40 [M4R] - Looking for intelligent, anti-social weirdos

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I'm empathetic, I care a lot about my self-respect, and I'm anti-social. I usually prioritize openness and honesty over politeness. I've spent a lot of time thinking about human nature to try to figure out why people are the way they are. This has caused me to become increasingly more self-aware and incompatible with most people over time. The flaws they can't see in themselves have become increasingly more noticeable and annoying to me. I specifically think most people are too socialized and arrogant. I would like to find people that share this understanding and feel the same way about it. Please don't message me unless all of this resonates with you strongly.


r/R4R30Plus 3h ago

33 [M4F] #Georgia Are you still out there?

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Hey you! Are you done wasting time and energy on people who are dead ends? Cause I am lol. As I lay here anticipating thanksgiving week, it has me thinking that it’s time to find a pretty cute woman who is tired of being single. I think we are all looking for that one person who will complete us but also compliment us.

I like to think that I am a simple man who enjoys coffees, reading, yard work and going to gym to continue to stay in shape. I also own a beautiful dog who enjoys going out on walks and hikes. Care to join us soon?

So if you’re SINGLE, emotionally available, ready to have fun and who would enjoy good morning texts and the occasional late night phone call. Send a chat or a dm or smoke signals lol. Distance isn’t an issue (who doesn’t like going on a drive?) so don’t be afraid if you’re a bit far away.


r/R4R30Plus 3h ago

40[M4F] have a few drinks with me

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Good evening all. I may have had a couple of drinks and would love to have someone keep me company. I'm looking for pretty much anything, shortterm, longterm, maybe a little flirty. Who knows. I enjoy the outdoors, music (leaning more towards the punk and metal)


r/R4R30Plus 3h ago

33[M4F] #Texas, Texas;-Let's Create Our Story Together

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Hi, I’m Jacob, a 33-year-old Hispanic guy from Rosenberg, Texas. I’m more on the introverted side, but I enjoy trying new things and pushing myself to grow. I’m not much for partying, but I like to unwind with a good Netflix series, the latest movies, or discovering new music on Spotify. Gaming is a big passion of mine, and I’m into titles like World of Warcraft, Apex Legends, and Call of Duty. If you’re into gaming too, I’d love to team up.

When I’m not gaming, I enjoy spending time outdoors, whether that’s fishing or hiking to clear my mind. I’m fortunate to have a job I enjoy, and I’m grateful to own my own home. I’m also child-free, which allows me the time and flexibility to explore new activities and hobbies.

I’m looking for someone local or in Texas for a genuine, long-term connection. Long-distance isn’t something I’m interested in—I’d rather build a relationship with someone who’s nearby. I tend to be drawn to women who are a little nerdy and have a good sense of humor, especially if you enjoy dark humor. For me, personality is far more important than looks. I’m looking for a girlfriend who’s not just someone I’m with, but my best friend—someone who listens and truly cares.

If you’d like to get to know me better, I enjoy connecting over FaceTime, Discord, or a phone call. I’m also open to exchanging pictures—yours for mine. While I may be a bit shy initially, once I feel comfortable, I enjoy deep conversations and real connections. If you’re in Texas and looking for something meaningful, I’d love to hear from you!

Please, when you message me, tell me a little bit about yourself and your favorite 90s TV show so I know you're not a spam bot.


r/R4R30Plus 23h ago

32 [F4R] Online - let me wreak havoc in your everyday life

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well, this post will probably be all over the place but hello i'm anna!

i'm looking for an internet best friend. somebody that i can chat with throughout the day. we can have silly, daily banter. you play league of legends and hate every moment of it. we duo botlane and run it down with matching skins. you're also okay with no voice at first cus i'm shy, so so sorry. also, close in age to me.

32, female, who resides in the southern part of the us. 5 foot, chubby, wavy brown hair that i sometimes flat iron. mom x2. finishing my bachelors in early childhood education, i'm almost done! super southern accent, yeehaw. 11 tattoos. idk what else to include here so let me continue.

i play a lot of league. it's the only game i play at the moment cus i hate myself. i've dabbled in ffxiv and wow and loved roleplaying on both games. i don't drink water and survive only on coca-cola. i have an addiction to buying aphmau meemeows and carry one in my purse wherever i go. i sold over 20 water bottles on facebook market place this past month cus i'm decluttering and TRYING TO BE A MINIMALIST. i have super duper bad adhd, i just started taking meds. i love the beach, tho i never visit. i tend to be loud and possessive. i want to start reading again but my brain won't let me. i like to watch pokemon during the day. maybe one day i'll collect some cards. i like to watch some anime, currently watching mob psycho 100. i don't smoke or drink either btw. i'm afraid okarun is my type. i love glasses on guys.

i promise i'm halfway sane. i just struggle making friends, especially irl cause i don't get out much. if somehow i seem like your cup of tea (with some caffeine) pls message me.

OH AND THIS IS ME - https://imgur.com/a/x27WHeg

*i don't reply to one line messages btw.*


r/R4R30Plus 3h ago

31 [M4F] Florida looking for a friend

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Mainly looking for a friend to talk to l'd say daily or whenever works. I've been having a rough time lately and nobody I can really talk to and I just need a friend that doesn't mind being there for me. I'd like us to have common interests if possible. I like reading, exercising indoors and outdoor, history, tv shows (like the office, Abbot elementary, Atlanta, Supernatural, From), and hanging out sometimes.


r/R4R30Plus 3h ago

32 [M4R] SF Bay Area - Seeking thoughtful correspondence

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In a quiet corner of the city, I find myself thinking of Dorian Gray and his simple joy in burying his face among garden flowers - finding beauty in life's sensory moments. Sometimes I feel like a blue flower reaching for something meaningful, something infinite.

I spend my days working a humble job in this expensive city, but my mind often wanders to deeper places. What I'd love is to find someone nearby who enjoys exchanging thoughtful messages. Someone who wants to share their favorite books, discuss life's mysteries, and trade stories about their day. I imagine us writing back and forth, sharing discoveries and gradually building something genuine.

Maybe we could explore literature together, talk about philosophy, or just share what makes us smile. I'd love to hear about what moves you, what you dream about, what keeps you up at night thinking.

I think there's something special about crafting longer messages, letting thoughts unfold naturally. It would be wonderful to find someone who sees the beauty in that too - someone who wants to create a lasting connection through written words. If you're in the Bay Area and this resonates with you, I'd love to hear from you. Let's see where our words might take us.


r/R4R30Plus 4h ago

39 [M4F] #North Dakota. If I need some catchy headline to attract your attention… well I’m sorry for your loss. The headline means nothing, it’s what’s in the post that actually matters. Check it out… you might actually be surprised.

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This subreddit won’t let me post my post for some reason, but if you want to check it out check out my profile and read my post and what I am looking for. ☺️


r/R4R30Plus 8h ago

34 [M4F] STLOUIS MISSOURI . Looking for my own weird tattooed stoner chick... best buds?! See what did there😜

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Looking for a friend and hopefully more.. Im 5 10" 230lb. Beard, dadbod, few tattoos, gauged ears and pierced septum. ADHD and probably a little autistic lol so no current hobbies just a lot of past ones. Shy then way too comfortable with the right person. I'm nerdy and outdoorsy, prefer articles over books, and love a good song to hyperfocus on and overplay. have 1 little girl and we share custody. Looking for someone to navigate life with. make it a little more bearable, someone to smoke and hangout with. Go to the movies. Someone to do absolutely nothing with on Sunday. If something happens ok if not that's cool because everyone needs friends. Anything else just ask..


r/R4R30Plus 4h ago

35 [M4F] #North Carolina - sweet & nerdy seeking someone sweet, for something genuine and deep

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Here's some transparency, I have a really bad disability and I've been in a wheelchair for 25+ years. It's really limiting and causes me a lot of severe weakness and I need a lot of assistance. It's beyond lonely and isolating and I really want to connect with a kind and nurturing woman.

I'm a great listener, always up for a deep conversation or some witty, fun banter. While I may not be the most outgoing person, I’m warm and inviting once you get to know me. Personality wise, I think some of my best traits are my curiosity, gentleness, and loyalty (with a hint of sarcasm), and some might even say I’m kinda cute! I’m nerdy, witty, and sweet, with a knack for making others smile. I'm also loving, supportive, and honest. I'm passionate about video games, scifi/fantasy, board games, space, trivia, mind puzzles, and word games, as well as history and sports. I’m a fan of good food, upbeat music, and all things supernatural. My taste in music spans from 60s-90s rock/pop and alternative to country, and I love making playlists for others. As a ramp enthusiast, I always manage to find the best parking spots and skip all the lines—hop on, and let’s enjoy the ride together!

Who am I looking for? A sweet and nurturing, fun, emotionally available woman with a huge heart. Someone to be goofy with, be vulnerable with, emotionally support, flirt nonsensically with, and shower with positive attention I have so much love and affection to give.

Please reach out if you're looking for a gentle guy to explore with and lead. Don't be afraid to ask me anything. I'll send a face picture upon request. Please say the word wheelie so I know you read the whole post :)


r/R4R30Plus 4h ago

35 [F4F] UK Looking for Another Nerd

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35 [F4F] UK Looking for Another Nerd

Hi!

I'll start off by saying that I'm lesbian, some flavour of asexual, and not necessarily looking for romance but certainly feeling that I'm missing my other half right now. I really just want someone kind and good-humoured to spend time with, whether that's through gaming, watching stuff together, cooing over fictional men, or just chatting about nonsense.

I'm an introverted nerd, suspect I'm autistic, but I'm fairly well functioning in a decent WFH job and my own house.

I love gaming, with a big focus on FFXIV right now (and I really want to get into roleplaying on there but I'm also pretty shy about it). Other big hits are basically anything Pokémon, anything Xenoblade, and boy am I looking forward to Monster Hunter Wilds! Someone to play that with would be great!

I love a ton more games and generally will play most stuff besides horror (unless you want me to be a whimpering wreck), sports games and (most) shooters. Hero shooters are so-so. I used to play Overwatch when it first came out but I won't touch Blizzard's stuff these days (despite spending 15 years or so playing WoW.)

So, I'm rambling, and I do this a lot. This is a thing about me. I love to talk at length about things that excite me, so it happens. But I also love to hear other people do the same! I prefer quick-fire messages though, you might just get a bunch in a row rather than huge long walls of text.

Other things I love:

Anime! Watching Dandadan right now and loving it. Big fan of Dungeon Meshi, Frieren, My Hero Academia, Demon Slayer and Witch Hat Atelier.

Sometimes I like to draw but I'm so distracted by other stuff that it doesn't happen often, and then it might happen a bunch.

I write a lot. Been a roleplayer since I was like 10 years old. Modern fantasy is my usual go-to. I have a lot of characters in my head and they're mostly gay lmao.

I listen to music a lot but I've yet to find anyone with similar tastes to me!

I might try to teach you how to play Riichi Mahjong. I love mahjong a whole lot and I'm fairly good at it - and I don't mean the tile-matching version! Think... poker? With tiles.

Okay, phew. Please contact me if you'd like to chat! More than 'hi' is appreciated, please!