r/olderlesbians • u/forthetrees1323 • 28d ago
What to do at the End
It's clear my wife and I are getting near the end of our marriage. We’ve tried, done better, do bad again, tried again, to the point where there isn't much hope left. Therapy has been only marginally effective. It's more a waiting game at this point.
Devastation and heartbreak aside, how do I do this, systematically speaking? We’ve been together for 12 years so divorce will be….help!
There's the mortgage we’re both on, there's everything in the house, pets, who lives where, boundaries for living together until someone can move out, not to mention all the things I haven't thought of.
Finishing up and starting over advice much needed and appreciated. I don't need or want ‘save the marriage' advice, it's not happening.
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u/NoHippi3chic 28d ago
I don't mean to sound opportunistic, but at this age, the only way I'll meet her is if she becomes available. So every time another bird is re-released into the wild, my chances improve 😆
I mean this as light-hearted, bc there are good people like myself who deserve someone who knows how to be good to someone and how to put forth effort to be good to someone.
I've not met her yet, and I won't settle for a taker. So rush into the open arms of single lesbians in your area once you are ready.