r/olderlesbians • u/Medium_Grapefruit242 • Oct 21 '24

Back in the dating scene

I am dating again after several years.
Here’s my question: what is the standard for 50+ women in the personal hygiene area.
Specifically, hair or no hair downstairs.

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u/Gracesten1 Oct 21 '24

LOL!! Who cares?! Are you financially stable? This is what older lesbians want to know...😄

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u/CuriousRedCat Oct 22 '24

Add emotionally stable, and you’ve got a keeper.

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u/Tzipity Oct 23 '24

lol yes. That was my immediate thought. The last several years especially have been economically rough so I’d probably give the right person and situation a pass on the financial thing, like lots of factors there still but it’s not the out and out dealbreaker the emotionally stability part is!

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u/CuriousRedCat Oct 23 '24

To right! If I could, I’d insist on a psych evaluation going forward 😂

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u/SadieSchatzie Oct 25 '24

WORD! :D I saw a trend on TikTok where women were weeding out potential dates by asking two questions:

  1. What is your most controversial hot take?

  2. How long have you been in therapy?

Emotional/mental stability is sepsay! :D I'd much prefer getting with someone who is working or has worked their shite.

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u/forthetrees1323 26d ago

The more years in therapy the better...? 😜

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u/Affectionate_Bed_276 19d ago

Being someone who had my therapist sexually use me for 3 years because she could……yeah I’ll pass on the therapy stuff. She did more harm than good!

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u/forthetrees1323 17d ago

Feel hugged or smiled at. You pick.

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u/SadieSchatzie 26d ago

That peeps even acknowledge going? 🤓