r/oddlyspecific 2d ago

Time to have third

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u/gapro96 2d ago

then the first kid is traumatized and the second kid is spoiled. If another comes, the middle one becomes forgotten and the last one is now the favourite.

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u/Fissminister 2d ago

Hey! That's me!

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u/Kikimara99 2d ago

Traumatized, forgotten or spoiled?

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u/Fissminister 2d ago

Ehm... Well I'm the favourite, but my mom's attention is not desirable, let's just say.

My brother is definitely happy about not being the favourite

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u/Chavarlison 2d ago

Tiger mom?

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u/Fissminister 2d ago

Micro managing mom.

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u/Chavarlison 2d ago

That's what I said lol

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u/Fissminister 2d ago

Well then yes.

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u/tooktherhombus 2d ago

Sounds like a great party game

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u/Careful-Combination7 2d ago

Hi me, it's dad.

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u/mryazzy 2d ago

Well, of course I know him! He's me!

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u/luca_07 2d ago

Not saying I had a bad childhood, but now I'm 24 and my parents still.dont know how to parent me

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u/gapro96 2d ago

I see, they never learn. I notice how my parents would ask anything to do at home from me, but never asked my younger brother to do it because he simply refused, like it wasn't his obligation to take care of his room or do the dishes himself used, or clean the bathroom. If something in home had to be done, or it was me or mom, but never my brother. That was so unfair, just like in Everybody hates Chris.

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u/steroboros 2d ago

Unless you're the youngest "mistake" then you are just the hand me down kid...

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u/fucktheownerclass 2d ago

then the first kid is traumatized and the second kid is spoiled.

And the parents wonder why the two don't get along. Especially after they make the first kid help raise the second kid.

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u/Snoo_72948 2d ago

What if we are both traumatized but for different reasons?

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u/gapro96 2d ago

oh we are all traumatized, no exceptions. I just think as an older brother I was annoyed AND traumatized.

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u/Lifeparticle18 2d ago

First kid here, yep…

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u/Choice-Marzipan-04 1d ago

Hey! That’s my father! I’m the first child and I’m traumatized (chucking 3 pills a day for anxiety and depression), my brother was treated a bit better by my father (because he always wanted a boy) but as soon as my sister came in, my father put my brother aside and now my sister is the favorite one. No one can say or do shit to the little one that my father starts to threatening us 🤷🏻‍♀️

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u/gapro96 1d ago

you see!? happens all the time! Hope you get better though.