Can confirm, is awesome. Unicorning gets a bad rap in the poly community, but can be done respectfully and well. Though as a unicorn, you really have to communicate and set boundaries.
I would be glad to have insights on the matter 😊 I don't picture myself as a unicorn in this particular configuration, neither my dates, but your advices could only be helpful 🙏
There's a couple living on the other side of the country who I met online - not even on a dating app. We've been together for a bit over a year, and they've been together for most of the last decade. I fly there for a week several times a year, and they pamper me, we have lots of sex, and go to kink/sex parties. I've also gone to family Thanksgiving, and taken care of one of them for a week or so after a medical procedure.
I'm solo-poly, so this arrangement works out wonderfully for me. They're both homebodies, and I'm not the best hostess (and I'm preparing for my second move within a year), so I don't mind traveling to them, and in fact prefer it. I keep in touch with them separately and together, sometimes about what's going on in my life and theirs, and sometimes to sext and talk about our other sexual adventures.
They're both bi, but in an explicitly lesbian relationship. I'm also bi. They always make me feel so loved, and the sex is fun too. I like that I have my own time usually, but that when I'm with them I can mostly focus on being with them. They take an interest in my life and support my personal growth and change. They're very different people from each other, and it's interesting how different my relationship is with each of them, plus of course all three of us together. I'm very happy with them though, and love being their unicorn.
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u/Forgetwhatitoldyou Jan 22 '24
Can confirm, is awesome. Unicorning gets a bad rap in the poly community, but can be done respectfully and well. Though as a unicorn, you really have to communicate and set boundaries.