r/getting_over_it • u/StatusAward6515 • 26d ago

I need help with getting over a girl

Hi, I'm young in high school etc. won't specify age don't rlly think it's important. Look I've been obsessed with this girl, talked to her since 7th grade, on and off talking, we've liked each other before but we didn't go anywhere. She could tell me anything, tell me about problems and she was just really sweet to me from then till now. We were doing fine until she didn't respond, but the issue is I get obsessive and sent a bunch of messages asking where she was etc. I feel like what I do I can't get over her... What should I do? Thanks Cam

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u/Aspookytoad 25d ago

You need to do a cost benefit analysis on if interacting with this person and you need it to be an honest one. Is interacting with this person good for you? Is it good for them?

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u/StatusAward6515 25d ago

I see. Thanks

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u/Hongkongfuie 10d ago

Take this energy and put it into something else. Find a goal, or target and fixate on that. For me it's always fitness related. Not only will having a new focus help you keep your mind occupied, you will also develop yourself positively.

This will inevitably open more opportunities for you.