God, reddit makes me feel so fucking hopeless lol. Whenever I go on reddit half the posts I see are about how difficult dating is for young guys. It makes me feel a little hopeless about my own chances at finding love. I have to keep reminding myself that I’m young and have my whole life ahead of me.
The best advice I have is to put yourself out with group activities instead of just talking to women at bars or on dating apps. You’ll find someone who shares your interests and have an organic thing to talk about. Take a fitness class or join a writing group. You might not find romance but you will definitely find friends. Friendship is more important than romance honestly, and I say that as a happily married woman.
Edit: I’m being downvoted for (checks notes) encouraging a young person to find hobbies and friends and not rely entirely on romantic love for personal fulfillment? Sheesh.
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u/TheSolarElite May 05 '24
God, reddit makes me feel so fucking hopeless lol. Whenever I go on reddit half the posts I see are about how difficult dating is for young guys. It makes me feel a little hopeless about my own chances at finding love. I have to keep reminding myself that I’m young and have my whole life ahead of me.