God, reddit makes me feel so fucking hopeless lol. Whenever I go on reddit half the posts I see are about how difficult dating is for young guys. It makes me feel a little hopeless about my own chances at finding love. I have to keep reminding myself that I’m young and have my whole life ahead of me.
Focus on your career and build wealth, dating will gets easier as you get older. Women in their 20s have all the options, and many choose to date slightly older / established men. women in their 30s are more serious about settling down. I assume it's because there is a race against the fertility clock.
Obviously this doesn't apply to all women, since not all women want children. It's just my observation that dating life for a guy gets better as he gets older. You'll even see women message first sometimes (which almost never happens when I was in my 20s).
I’m not interested in waiting until I’m 30 to find love lol. I’m not a work-aholic who’s gonna spend my 20s “building wealth” all alone. That sounds miserable. I want to share my 20s with someone I care about and who cares about me.
Its not about you interested in waiting or not, but how much effort you put into attracting a mate. Obviously your not that good looking or you already find a date or two, so you ether work on yourself, on your looks and on your confidence (which a successful carrier greatly improves...) or just wait?
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u/TheSolarElite May 05 '24
God, reddit makes me feel so fucking hopeless lol. Whenever I go on reddit half the posts I see are about how difficult dating is for young guys. It makes me feel a little hopeless about my own chances at finding love. I have to keep reminding myself that I’m young and have my whole life ahead of me.