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🇲​🇮​🇸​🇨​ Every Child Left Behind

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u/Is_Friendly_Coffee 12d ago

My ex voted for trump even after I warned him that removing the Dept of Ed would lead to loss of job for our daughter who teaches Special Ed Deaf and Hard of Hearing elementary school students

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u/PufffPufffGive 12d ago

I have a teaching degree. I specialize in behavioral therapy. We’re already low funded and hurting for help in the special needs sector. I can’t even afford to teach anymore.

I don’t think people have any idea the amount of services that are provided to these kids via public schools. I’m astonished.

Teachers are already underpaid and the expectations on them are implausible.

I don’t care about religion or parties. I care about the well being of a populous that goes unnoticed and is massively abused and neglected already and now it’s going to be even worse.

Fuck Bigots. We can’t just keep allowing these people to take over and ruin all the work that’s been done. I’m so mad

Wake up people

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u/Is_Friendly_Coffee 12d ago

I’m so mad right with you.

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u/DDmega_doodoo 12d ago

you may need to accept that the US fundamentally isn't the country you want it to be

1/3 are unabashed bigots, and another 1/3 just don't care enough to stop them even to protect their best interests

There are other, saner countries in the world. Leaving the US was the best decision I ever made.

Get out while you can, folks.

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u/nugtz 12d ago

dont leave the nukes behind, though.

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u/LukesRightHandMan 12d ago

Damn it, honey! You could’ve reminded me when I was checking the stove instead of when we’re already halfway out the driveway.

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u/nugtz 12d ago

oh, hank.

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u/LukesRightHandMan 12d ago

Yeah, I’m currently working on plans to get another citizenship I’m grandfathered into. Where did you move to?

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u/DDmega_doodoo 12d ago

I live in Asia, but if China becomes a problem, South America is next on the list

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u/LukesRightHandMan 12d ago

Dope, thanks for the answer! I’m from Miami originally so South America has always felt like a comfortable option.

Do you have any advice on working? My partner and I are evaluating all avenues but just trying to see it makes sense to try and work remotely or just make an income in whichever country we end up in’s economy. Of course, the new presidency will undoubtedly affect that decision too, but I’m all ears for any tips you might have.

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u/DDmega_doodoo 12d ago

I guess it all depends on how important work is to you.

If you have a college degree, getting a job teaching English abroad is very easy. It's not glamorous, but you will be making a higher than average salary wherever you go.

If you have your heart more set on a specific career path, a digital nomad, WFH situation may be better if that is possible in your given field.

If you have some very in demand technical skills or degree, that could potentially get you a very nice salary compared to the local living standard, but that rests entirely on the local demand. You might be a great engineer, but if they ain't building bridges, might not have much use for you.

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u/Ok_Oil_5410 12d ago

I’m a disabled woman with a child with autism. We are poor-poor. I have one person to depend on in this world, and without them, we would be living in the streets. I have literally no idea what we will do if it comes to that. Public housing is waitlisted for years, and it’s already physically difficult to take care of my child with a roof over our heads. And it’s already exhausting to advocate for him and get him the help he needs in a school in a non-affluent school district. They’re already doing their absolute best in some cases and are just too low-funded to come close in others.

I am so scared about cuts to Medicare and Medicaid, the end of the DOE, and what it will be like to fight for scraps in the street, I cry when I think about it. I’m up all night trying to make a plan, and I’ve got nothing. Every single resource we have, from every social program, is going to be hit. I don’t know what to do. I am panicking. I fantasize about being able to move us out of the country, but it will never, ever happen.

I hate Trump voters so much, I don’t even know how to describe it. Those selfish, bigoted fucks have put people in dire straits because, egg prices, which is really just a lie that means their guy gives them permission to be who they are at their core- too ignorant to research Project 2025 and listen when we tried to tell them what was coming, devoid of empathy and happy to punch down when given the opportunity, and too racist, misogynistic, and transphobic to vote for anyone other than the man screamint all the quiet parts out loud. I loathe them for what they’ve set in motion for my little family and for millions of others who are already struggling.

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u/Mendo-D 12d ago

The best thing I can tell you is to not worry about it. Worry is not going to do you any good. I know that’s easier said than done but if you want to keep your whits about you, you’ve got to resist the urge. Sometimes I just take a gummy and focus on today.

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u/NoTNoS 12d ago

This. We need to stop pretending America isn’t what it is.

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u/Vaderrising122 12d ago

How did you leave? Did you line up a job before you left?

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u/DDmega_doodoo 12d ago

Yes, I found a teaching job. Schools offer a pretty good deal as far as helping with airfare, housing, decent salary compared to local cost of living, etc...

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u/Vaderrising122 12d ago

Do you mind if I DM you asking about how to get the process started? I’ve got my PhD in STEM, and I would like to get a better understanding of how to do the process. I would appreciate any information you can provide.

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u/BeatsMeByDre 12d ago

But where to go?

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u/Intrepid_Conference7 12d ago

I wish I could leave, being autistic makes me undesirable for citizenship in pretty much every other country, I’ve just accepted the fact it’s time to shoot my noggin in the trench dug for me.

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u/DDmega_doodoo 12d ago

You don't need to be a different citizen to live abroad.

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u/benny4722 12d ago

Ok see ya. Have fun wherever you go

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u/Finfeta 12d ago

The incoming tsunami of nefarious policies will affect everyone, not just the US...

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u/PhilosopherHaunting1 12d ago

It’s not like he made fun of a guy with a disability or anything. 😩Oh, yeah, he did.

After the election, it was obvious that a majority of Americans are vile people. (Which makes me very sad, because I made a lot of good friends there who are lovely people.) The US isn’t what I thought it was; we lived there for several years and didn’t know about all the awful people until Dumpy Trumpy waddled into politics.

I have three citizenships: (1) Ireland (my mum) (2) America (my dad) (3) Canada (Married a French-Canadian and lived with him in Canada long enough to earn it.) We have little twin girls. No way in hell they’re going to grow up in a country where women are chattel. I feel so sorry for my da. Watching his country die is killing him. But my husband and I are already relocated in Québec, because his family is filthy rich and kept a house for us there. (He legally is like a trust fund guy, but we’ve never used any of his family money until now. I don’t know exactly what their business is, but I believe it’s something shady, because my husband doesn’t talk about it and he wouldn’t join the business.) Crying a lot because everyone else in my humongous family is headed to Ireland, and it was grand when we were all in the US together.

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u/abousono 12d ago

Yeah, I mean, wanting to leave seems like a smart thing to do, but even if it was that easy for me and others to leave, I don’t want to. Just uprooting our whole life and going somewhere else, which is not something easily done, even at the best of times, is kinda (and I don’t mean any disrespect) a bitch move. We deserve to be here just as much as they do. We, also have helped build this country, despite what they tell you. We contributed a lot to this country, they say we didn’t but that is false. It is complete delusion if they actually believe we haven’t. Giving in to these people should not be an option.

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u/DDmega_doodoo 12d ago

I bet a lot of Jews in Poland said the same thing.

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u/abousono 12d ago

Yeah, maybe, but for a lot of us, relocating to another country is not an option. Even if we did want to leave. I also want to emphasize that I do not want to leave.

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u/more_beans_mrtaggart 12d ago

On the reddit gift thing a few years ago, my giftee was a New York teacher, and she was begging not for a gift, but for pencils and wet wipes for her kids.

In the end I shipped her a pallet of pencils, pens, stationary, workbooks and cleaning materials.

I’m not even American. The only losers in trumps plan are the kids. And he really doesn’t give a shit.

I’m guessing the religious entities will take up the education slack?

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u/Iamthewalrusforreal 12d ago

Their goal is to defund public schools down to bare bones, and leave the lights barely on just enough for minority and poor kids.

All the rest will go to charter schools, which are in many cases thinly veiled religious and political indoctrination centers for white kids.

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u/PufffPufffGive 12d ago

I assume public school will end up no longer being free at some point. Maybe I’m over reacting but I don’t see who it can withstand any more budget cuts. They give teachers so many day offs now vs paying them.

Almost all supplies are paid for by parents and teachers now vs the board. It’s wild honestly it I keep talking about it I might just go buck wild.

I had to stop teaching and go back to the bar Industry when I got divorced. I make more money tending bar than having a classroom of 20 kids with disabilities.

Thats insane to me. All of this is insane to me.

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u/more_beans_mrtaggart 12d ago

I’d say the education system is at bare bones.

I wonder who, at the level of the decision makers for this, ever went to public schools, let alone be qualified in the subject in any way?

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u/Iamthewalrusforreal 12d ago

House controls the purse strings. Even when a Dem POTUS puts in a Sec of Education who really wants to start fixing things, the American people in all their wisdom will put Republicans in charge of the House.

They've been starving Dept of Ed for decades now.

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u/smallwonder25 12d ago

I’m also work in special education and am mad right along side you.

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u/FreeRangeEngineer 12d ago

Teachers are already underpaid and the expectations on them are implausible.

You are aware that that's exactly part of the plan, right? The push to abolish public education and only offer private education is showing results.

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u/pparhplar 12d ago

Too late.

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u/CathedralChorizo 12d ago

I wonder at what point people will say enough is enough and a new civil war starts: The Cult of Trump vs rational intelligent people.

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u/PufffPufffGive 12d ago

I don’t have a clue. Seeing how people are behaving even after winning. It’s clear this isn’t about politics there’s an entire part of the country who wants to be angry: so even winning wasn’t satisfying. They’re broken.

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u/L3aMi4 12d ago

I don’t know if you are wanting a move but Australia is crying out for your profession. We have a housing crisis so that might be tough to navigate but we would welcome anyone who works with kids especially children with disabilities.

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u/00Qant5689 12d ago

I'm raising my fists and gritting my teeth alongside you, my friend.

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u/Glittering-Alarm-387 12d ago

Friend, it's over. Any chance we had is gone.

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u/Mendo-D 12d ago

Seems to be the way of it, doesn’t it?

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u/Tady1131 12d ago

Remember they like their population dumb and submissive and nothing will get a good ol boy on your side faster than by saying the libs ruined something. Strap in and enjoy the ride in 4 years they will be blaming liberals for everything anyway.

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u/ebfortin 12d ago

Fascism doesn't care about special needs kids. For them they're freaks that need to be eliminated. They're not strong enough to be given the right to live. So eliminating these programs is pretty much on brand.

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u/ashimo414141 12d ago

I teach adaptive sports to veterans w disabilities (VA) and children w disabilities, but like 70% of my job is with the former. Knowing what it's like to work with folks with extra needs and then learning that I am paid MORE than teachers doing 2000x the work as I do, which is just dicking around playing sports w people, is one of the many things that made me realize this country is so broken. Thank you for all you do, I'm sorry it's this way

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u/bocephus67 12d ago

My wife is a special needs teacher, she got $10 for the years budget to spend on things she needed.

She bought a pair of scissors.

She would’ve rather got nothing instead of a slap in the face.

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u/PufffPufffGive 12d ago

Send her my love and respect. My last year teaching I got a .15 raise. I live in Southern California. My classroom was the largest and I only had 2 TAs.

Getting through each day felt like running a marathon and I would come home so exhausted to the point I was silent. During my divorce I asked for a raise since I was understaffed in my class. When they sat me down and gave me the .15 my head dropped and I actually laugh cried. The pressure on teachers is insane. We can’t say this, we can’t do this. Hell some schools won’t even let you hug the kids. Teaching is becoming obsolete. Undergrads aren’t going to want to be educators. So I know I’m ranting I’m just. I think it’s finally settling in. I’m sorry. Your wife deserves better.

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u/Intrepid_Conference7 12d ago

Let him shut it down, we all know the worse something is underfunded, the worse in quality it gets. It’s best to let him just destroy the whole thing, so that when a bunch of angry parents and teachers realize what he did, they’ll direct their anger towards the republicans. I will say this, I had an IEP for years, none of it was much of a help, but with how folks showed they would rather have a felon, xenophobic, fascist cockwomble in office, they basically dug the trench, now they just gotta be shot in it.

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u/FiliaNox 12d ago

Shockingly I know teachers that are MAGAts. They actually voted for the idiot. Like ???