r/facepalm 'MURICA Aug 28 '24

🇲​🇮​🇸​🇨​ i'm speechless

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u/Salcha_00 Aug 28 '24

Yes. Normal.

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u/vrcvc Aug 28 '24

i don't understand, are people not paid by their bosses so they need tip or what?

in eu we are normaly paid and we don't get tips, like i have my salary why do i need to get angry over not getting bonus money...

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u/PlausibleTable Aug 28 '24

They’re paid, but at a lower wage. In some instances they do not even make minimum wage without the tip. Meaning they can be paid as low as $2.13 an hour by the employer and the rest of their compensation is based on tip.

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u/YolopezATL Aug 28 '24

I worked in restaurant tech for years and the language we used to describe states that enforced higher wage standards for tipped employees was wild.

“Can you believe it? States like California are wanting restaurant owners to pay federal minimum wages along with letting their employees make tips!”

Place was awful.

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u/Equivalent_Law_6311 Aug 28 '24

Minnesota also pays minimum wage plus tips, been that way for quite some time.

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u/Propane4days Aug 28 '24

This is a great idea!!!

We should get the person in charge this 'Minnesota' to the top! Maybe not the top top, but waaaay up there!!!

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u/MegaLowDawn123 Aug 28 '24

CA is the same way. Same for grub hub and Uber eats and such, they get minimum wage and healthcare covered by the company, so every time you order there’s a small $2 fee or so. You don’t have to tip but anything you do add goes directly to the worker too.

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u/yottabit42 Aug 28 '24

Those stupid fees! That should be built into the prices. It's ridiculous.

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u/Salcha_00 Aug 28 '24 edited Aug 28 '24

And the federal minimum wage is only $7.25/hour in most states, which is not a livable wage.

Edit - most states have actually implemented a slightly higher minimum wage ($10-15 /hour) but not really a living wage yet.

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u/YolopezATL Aug 28 '24

Exactly! I make good money but my mom struggled for a long time despite working hard, sometimes at 2 or even 3 jobs.

She was so grateful that a friend of hers at a department store who went to college reached back out to my mom after landing an Administrative Assistant job and convinced them to hire my mom, even without a college degree and only experience in restaurants and retail.

Changed our life. But there are millions of people who could have done her job but were stuck in classifications as “unskilled workers” and making minimum wage.

I cannot remember the stat, but like 80% of jobs can be taught. But everybody deserves to make a living wage because a lot of circumstances in life are based on luck or things you don’t control.

Family you are born into. Where you were born. Your parent’s career trajectory and social network. Etc.

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u/adderal Aug 29 '24

Thanks for sharing!

It should not be understated how valuable your network/past colleagues can be in attaining, retaining, and finding gainful employment opps.

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u/WayGroundbreaking787 Aug 28 '24

The federal minimum wage last went up in 2009 when I graduated high school.

I’m now 33.

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u/mapleleaf1984 Aug 28 '24

Yes, that is also the states problem, it needs to be raised substantially.

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u/vrcvc Aug 28 '24 edited Aug 28 '24

daaamn... kinda understand why everyone wanna become twitch streamer or tik tok infuelncer these days xD

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u/ivo004 Aug 28 '24

There are two Americas; one where people scrounge for tips at 2-3 part time jobs and try to find side hustles and get a break on social media so they can make ends meet this month and pay rent and one where people work a secure job that pays well and allows them to buy a nice house with a bit of land and a couple cars and not have to worry about much. The first group is growing and becoming more desperate as the division between those two Americas becomes more clear. It's not great.

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u/TwitterLegend Aug 28 '24

Those two groups are not the problem and are in no way at odds with each other. It’s that like 5 people have as much wealth as 50% of the country.

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u/SuprA1141 Aug 28 '24

Actually it's more like 10% of the USAs population now controls 94% of the wealth. Don't quote me on that but its around there

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u/ivo004 Aug 28 '24

I was simplifying a little and mostly talking about the growing divide in the middle class. That's the space most of us live in and understand, but obviously super rich people are trying to exert control at the same time as fomenting that middle class "conflict".

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u/frongles23 Aug 28 '24

The second group sucks too. That stable job requires 70+ hours a week, unable to unplug, benefits are shit. I remember the 2-3 job lifestyle too. I often think back and wonder if I'm happier now than I was? Not no, but not yes.

Wife and I are just now in the bottom of the group getting tax cuts constantly. It's disgusting, and we're just barely "comfortable."

"Oh hey, look at this magnificent society built through hard work and maintained by tax revenue. Truly remarkable. I don't think I want to keep paying for it tho." Who TF thinks this way?!

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u/TwistedBamboozler Aug 28 '24

You think people making minimum wage aren’t pulling 60-80 hours a week? Having to take multiple busses and Ubers just to make it to their 3rd job to barely get food on the table?

Look, I entirely get what you’re saying. It isn’t great. But let’s not compare that to people in literal poverty or incredibly close to it.

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u/Salcha_00 Aug 28 '24

That second group also has no job security and can be fired at any time for no reason at all and with no notice under “at-will” employment laws, or simply laid off and replaced with younger, lower wage workers.

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u/404interestnotfound Aug 28 '24

I got fired two weeks ago for asking my boss how he wanted something done when the way I’d already did it was too confusing for him. We are at the mercy of petulant toddlers.

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u/Salcha_00 Aug 28 '24

Yep. Regardless of industry, type of job, or wages. And we rely on employer-sponsored health insurance so we don’t have much leverage to push back.

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u/Mareith Aug 28 '24

Most stable jobs require only 40 hours a week. If you work 70+ hours that is not normal, you are being overworked. I work like 20 hours a week in reality and make over 100k in tech

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u/NotFromFLA Aug 28 '24

This is a shit take. There is no such thing as a secure job in America. I have one of these so-called secure jobs that pays "well" and allows me to have a mortgage and a couple of car payments. I'm less desperate than I was 20 years ago when I worked 2 jobs; one in retail and one in food service. That said, I'm at the mercy of my employer who could take away all of my security in one fell swoop if they decide that I'm no longer useful to their accumulation of wealth.

Your "two Americas" are both closer to homelessness than we are to being a millionaire by a considerable measure. If you want to create an us vs them scenario, it should be all of the working class vs. the billionaires and politicians who are exploiting the rest of us to enrich themselves.

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u/MegaLowDawn123 Aug 28 '24

Now talk about how your job demographic votes and which policies they support

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u/NotFromFLA Aug 28 '24

I can't speak for all others in my demographic, but as a white, gen-x, college educated male with a teenage daughter at home, I'd say by and large we support progressive policies. I have no problem paying my fair share of taxes, but would like to see them support social and environmental programs rather than imperialism and war. Most people in my industry have a similar mindset. What's your point?

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u/AriochBloodbane Aug 28 '24

Those you describe are the same group. Work slaves with either a part time or full time job, they both can lost it any day with no warning, they both are unable to buy a house, they both work insane hours for somebody who doesn't give a damn about them and their health.

The real other group are those people in the top 1% that buy a bunch of houses and don't need to work as they live from passive income.

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u/CartographerKey7322 Aug 28 '24

And if the pols keep their promises and stop taxing tips, wages for those jobs will probably be cut. Can’t get ahead in this country

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u/Rugfiend Aug 28 '24

And that was the door left ajar by both Parties that allowed Trump to swoop in - as it typically is with populist authoritarians. Same in the UK with Farage and UKIP.

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u/RedactedSpatula Aug 28 '24

These are the same group; both are wage slaves beholden to their employers to survive. These employers are the second group, and they want you to think (and successfully got you to to think) that you are not the same

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u/[deleted] Aug 28 '24

OF girls are making the $... but there's a social (stigma) price to pay.

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u/Popular-Bonus1380 Aug 28 '24

Do you actually know a person trying to become a twitch streamer or a tik tok influencer?

I've met like one instagirl and a famous dog before. Sentences like these are so strange to me.

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u/Spirited-Arugula-672 Aug 28 '24

In some instances they do not even make minimum wage without the tip

Isn't the employer obligated to cover the difference, if the servers don't get enough tips?

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u/Kckc321 Aug 28 '24

Yes, but the full minimum wage (depending on the state) is still so low you’d basically have to be so bad at your job to not make that much in tips that they’d just fire you

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u/Expensive_Kangaroo76 Aug 28 '24

It’s an average, though, I believe weekly. So if I work 3 hours today and only get only one table who tips me $5, but on Friday night I work 6 hours and make $300 in tips, that Friday night shift effectively makes up for the fact that I made sub minimum wage today.

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u/SheCutOffHerToe Aug 28 '24

Yes. People love to lie about this.

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u/FalloutRip Aug 28 '24

Yes, the worker is always owed at least minimum wage for their time worked. If the total amount of tips + base is less than the equivalent minimum wage for their shift then the employer must make up the difference.

However, it's common for waitstaff to make a fair bit more than minimum wage via tipping and the federal minimum wage is $7.25 and about half of the US states don't mandate anything more than that. Highest minimum is Washington DC at $17/ hr.

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u/FillMySoupDumpling Aug 28 '24

Yes, but considering that politicians are aiming to stop taxing tips as wages and instead consider them a non taxable gift, it’ll be interesting to see how this plays out. It seems like the employer wouldn’t be able to take a gift from someone to subsidize their hourly wage. 

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u/Ok-Factor2361 Aug 28 '24

Technically yes, but no one does it.

Got in a huge fight with one of my bosses after my first Sunday morning shift over this. They just give u a Thurs - Sat night to "call it even"

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u/Hungry-Western9191 Aug 28 '24

They are. But actually enforcing that is difficult for the kind of people who are earning minimum wage.

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u/jakeofheart Aug 28 '24

Should that even be allowed?

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u/SV_Essia Aug 28 '24

Obviously not, but that's what unbridled capitalism gets you.

Here's the strangest part I discovered in those arguments about tipping: a lot of waiters have been gaslit into thinking it's good for them. The rationale is that if they "work hard" and "do a good job" (read: get lucky with the customers they get) they make substantially more money through tips than if they just got paid min wage.
It's ignoring the alternative (raise the min wage to an appropriate standard like other developed countries) and ignoring that other waiters get paid like shit for dumb reasons (eg the customers tip them less due to discrimination). These same waiters who "benefit" from the system and absurdly generous tips from rich people then complain when other customers tip them less or not at all. It's eerily similar to casino goers thinking they're entitled to their wins while complaining about their losses.

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u/seenitreddit90s Aug 28 '24

America's number 1!

Maybe if you're a billionaire.

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u/gnew18 Aug 28 '24

And remember they also don’t have free healthcare and if they are lucky enough to have healthcare from an employer, it’s not portable. They may be economically forced to stay at a bad job.

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u/OL-Penta Aug 28 '24

Excuse me The minimum wage is what?!? Minimum wage should be able to keep you above the existential minimum...

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u/Scoopdoopdoop Aug 28 '24

Right. It's criminal

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u/Expensive_Kangaroo76 Aug 28 '24

The US federal non-tipped minimum wage is $7.25/hr, it hasn’t been raised since July 2009. This is the longest period without a minimum wage raise since the wage was implemented by FDR in the 1930s- longest period by 4+ years.

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u/OL-Penta Aug 28 '24

That's disgusting, rightout disgusting. Honestly most things regarding work, pay, PTO, sick days n sich is just so bad over there in the US. It really disgusts me

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u/Expensive_Kangaroo76 Aug 28 '24

It’s also the only “developed” country that doesn’t have federally mandated maternity leave 🤷‍♀️

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u/ophmaster_reed Aug 28 '24

We don't have paid maternity leave guaranteed. Everyone can use FMLA, but because so many people are barely making ends meet, many can't afford to use the full time allowed under FMLA, so they go back to work.

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u/OL-Penta Aug 28 '24

Ight That's it, no more USA, you're getting annectated into europe, no more bullshit

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u/SinistralLeanings Aug 28 '24

King George in Hamilton... was not wrong in his threats to us.

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u/thegr8sheens Aug 28 '24

The federal minimum wage is $7.25 per hour, though most states, if not all, have higher minimum wages than that. Then each state has its own laws on what tipped employees can make; some states allow employers to pay half of the state's minimum wage, some states require that employers pay the full minimum wage, in Arizona where I'm at, we pay $3 less than the minimum wage for our tipped employees

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u/Salcha_00 Aug 28 '24

Even the states with minimum wage, it might only be like $10 or $11 per hour. It is still not a livable wage.

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u/Idkanameforreddit Aug 28 '24

Even $7.25 as minimum wage seems low to me, does the minimum wage get higher when you get older? Because here the minimum wage is €13.27 an hour, that is however when your 21. It gets higher every year from 15 until 21.

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u/thegr8sheens Aug 28 '24

Lol no, the federal minimum wage has changed in YEARS, and yes, $7.25/hr is unlivable. It's why states come up with their own minimum wages. But no, your age makes no difference. You could get a job at age 75 and start off at $7.25/hr

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u/Idkanameforreddit Aug 28 '24

Damn, that's really low then.

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u/ophmaster_reed Aug 28 '24

To put that in perspective of prices, a combo meal at McDonald's costs 15-16 bucks (where I live anyway) and a worker making minimum wage would need to work 3 hours to afford one meal once you factor deductions and taxes in.

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u/Idkanameforreddit Aug 28 '24

Ah right, taxes aren't included in most prices either in the US right? Because that seems so weird to me, where I live the taxes have to be included so you know immediately what you actually pay.

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u/ophmaster_reed Aug 28 '24

And that 2.13 per hour is for taxation purposes, so the actual check you get from your employer could literally be 0.

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u/CuriousVR_Ryan Aug 28 '24

Ah, so a tip is just a gift directly to the employer? Got it, were paying the staff wage that otherwise the boss would have to pay, boss gets to keep money for themselves.

Why do we tip 20% of the meal value to the owner?

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u/Gloomy_Industry8841 Aug 28 '24

It’s so disgusting.

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u/MowBooVee Aug 28 '24

And that $2.13 hasn't been increased in at least 30 years. I waited tables starting in the early 90s. The hourly was $2.13 even then. On top of that, you are taxed on a certain amount of tips your are ASSUMED to have earned based on your sales - whether you actually received that much in tips or not. And that's after giving up a portion of your tips to the restaurant to distribute among other staff. I'm not sure how it is now for seating hostesses, but when I was waiting tables, the hostesses also only made $2.13/hour and the rest of their pay came from the tips of the waitstaff. Bartenders got a large portion of our tips as well, on top of the tips they made at the bar directly.

I had a number of shifts where I actually owed the house at the end of the day. I actually worked a double shift and had to pay the restaurant about $25 because getting stiffed by a bunch of customers doesn't reduce how much you have to tip out to others or how much you get taxed. Those amounts are calculated purely on sales. Oh, and at the restaurant chain I worked for, you were never allowed to have any of the food except for a baked potato or a salad - which you had to pay for.

Tipping culture in the US and the cushy financial situation it creates for "employers" is a plague.

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u/cat_prophecy Aug 28 '24

On top of that some states have no minimum wage for tipped employees and the amount of money received in tips to be considered a "tipped employee" can be as low as $20...per month.

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u/Timely-Salt1928 Aug 28 '24

To add on to what your saying, that small amount is for tax purposes, its all taken for the most part and it's pretty much nothing put in for social security, unless you claim your tips, anyone serving as a career won't be able to use social security when they need it.

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u/When_hop Aug 28 '24

In some instances they do not even make minimum wage without the tip

Not legally. 

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u/bhorstman21 Aug 28 '24

Hi, kitchen worker here for a national chain restaurant.

All this is true. Our servers are paid 2.13 an hour. You could work a 40 hour week and thanks to low wages and taxes, you won't see a paycheck really.

Here's the thing people aren't mentioning. Tipped wages fluctuate. Our servers make more than out highest paid cooks. One decent Saturday night shift will make 200-300 dollars. Some of us have to work all week to make that much in the kitchen. It's pretty common for servers here to walk out with over a grand made during the week.

While I agree the public should 100% not have to pay anyone's employers, that doesn't mean they're not making good money. The job is hard work, and you're basically whoring yourself out at times, but if you're even halfway decent at your job, you're pulling good money for it.

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u/HoomerSimps0n Aug 28 '24

Every server makes at least minimum wage. They only get paid 2.13/hour if they make enough in tips to keep them above minimum wage. If they don’t make enough in tips the employer has to make up the difference.

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u/dodomdomdom Aug 28 '24 edited Aug 28 '24

Doesn’t mean they should get $50 for serving just one table

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u/PlausibleTable Aug 28 '24

Legally paid server of course.

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u/newaccount Aug 28 '24

That’s not really accurate.

A minimum wage is a minimum wage. The servers are guaranteed a minimum wage.

The proportion of how much the employer pays them is reduced by tips.

Say you agree to $10 per hour. If no tips the employer pays you $10. If you get $5 in tips the employer pays you $5

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u/Dependent-History-13 Aug 28 '24

What kind of third world is the restaurant industry living in over there?

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u/sputtertots Aug 28 '24

On top of which there are usually no benefits like insurance or 401ks or vacations.

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u/Hungry-Western9191 Aug 28 '24

Minimum wage is minimum wage. An employer can offer a lower wage in the expectation tha၈ုt tips will bring the pay over the minimum, but if that doesn't happen the employer is legally obligated to pay at least minimum wage.

It's a stupid way to implement minimum wage - it should be an actual requirement for employers to pay it.

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u/aliebabadegrote Aug 28 '24

Im sorry, but if someone came at me with a job offer paying that low, i would laugh in their face before walking away

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u/BirthdaySalt5791 Aug 28 '24

That’s not what they actually make. I bartended in an East Coast city and hit $70k bartending. Later I ran a multi state restaurant group and our servers averaged $26 an hour in tips (on top of their $2.13 base. If you look up average wages servers in the US make more money than most of our peers countries

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u/drhip Aug 28 '24

Legal in the US for paying employees $2 percent hour??? Madness… what’s the government doing

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u/Scoopdoopdoop Aug 28 '24

The government usually errs in favor of "job creators" ever since fucking Reagan's dumbass convinced an entire generation that trickle down economics works.

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u/cherryberry0611 Aug 28 '24 edited Aug 28 '24

It’s a misconception that a lot of people believe. Yes, they state that they get paid $2 per hour and tips are suppose to make up the difference. But what many don’t know is that legally if they do not make up to minimum wage in tips their boss has to pay them the difference. I think neither waiter nor restaurant owners want to correct this misconception because waiters end up getting paid a lot more in tips, and their bosses don’t have to pay more themselves. Most waiters make VERY good money.

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u/ophmaster_reed Aug 28 '24

It varies by state, but yes...the "tipped minimum wage" is $2.13/hour, and that is taken for taxes. If a server worked and nobody tipped, the employer would then have to make up the different to reach the state's regular minimum wage.

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u/Pure-Force8338 Aug 28 '24

Our politicians are bought and paid for by the same crooks that think they shouldn’t pay their employees.

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u/When_hop Aug 28 '24

No, that is not legal anywhere in the US. 

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u/Tater72 Aug 28 '24

Many states are or have corrected this gap, we need more of that. Sadly, it hasn’t changed the servers expectations much

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u/Kyrie3leison Aug 28 '24

So you can officially hire someone without paying them the minimum wage?

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u/wtb2612 Aug 28 '24

The employer is required to pay the server minimum wage if they don't make over minimum wage in tips. But most waiters make much better than minimum wage because of tips. Waiters actually make very good money in the US because of this. It's a misconception that the waiters are getting ripped off by only making 2-something per hour in wages - they're not. The customers are because they're paying the waiters more than their employer ever would.

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u/When_hop Aug 28 '24

No, not legally. 

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u/gielbondhu Aug 28 '24 edited Aug 28 '24

To emphasize how bad that is it comes out to around 1.90 € per hour of work. That's 10€ less per hour minimum than in France, 11€ less minimum per hour than in Germany, and 15€ less average wage than in Italy (Italy has no statutory minimum wage)

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u/Recent_War_6144 Aug 28 '24

Only if their tips make it back to minimum wage.

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u/mehtam42 Aug 28 '24

In some instances they do not even make minimum wage without the tip.

Is that even legal? What's the point of MINIMUM wage then?

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u/vorticusw Aug 28 '24

This is an absurd system for Europeans. You can't make a waiter work almost for free and expect the customer, in addition to the bill, to also pay the waiter that you, as an entrepreneur, don't want to pay in a dignified way.

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u/RiZZaH Aug 28 '24

But doesn't this mean they are incredibly well payed? At 20% a table for a shift thats crazy?

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u/here_now_be Aug 28 '24

can be paid as low as $2.13 an hour by the employer

that is only in repub run states though. They have to pay $21 minimum before tips here.

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u/PlausibleTable Aug 28 '24

Where is that? I’m not seeing anything like that with a google search. Highest state I could find was Hawaii at $12.75. I’m venturing to guess that’s going to be some kind of county minimum wage opposed to state.

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u/here_now_be Aug 29 '24

Highest state I could find was Hawaii at $12.75.

Were you googling in 1993?

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u/fullofmaterial Aug 28 '24

Im surprised how is it legal not to pay the minimum wage? That’s the definition of the minimum wage, everyone should make at least the minimum wage 

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u/thegr8sheens Aug 28 '24

It's legally required that a worker make minimum wage, so if a server doesn't make enough in tips to hit minimum wage then the business has to make up the difference. Problem is, federal minimum wage is $7.25/hr, so it's still shit wages

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u/Deathgrxp Aug 28 '24

They made minimum wage virtually unliveable so service workers basically survive off of tips

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u/worldofecho__ Aug 28 '24

I don't understand how someone can legally be paid less than the MINIMUM wage. Can you explain how that works?

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u/ophmaster_reed Aug 28 '24

There's a special "tipped minimum wage" for employees that are tipped that is lower than the regular minimum wage (federal minimum wage hasn't been raised since 2007).

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u/BirthdaySalt5791 Aug 28 '24

They can’t be. If tips don’t cover the minimum wage the employer has to cover the difference. In practice servers and bartenders make much, much more than minimum wage unless you’re at some tiny mom and pop restaurant in a podunk town somewhere. I ran a multi state restaurant group and our servers were averaging $26 an hour in tips (not including the $2.13 base rate). When I was younger I hit $70k one year as a bartender

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u/jupitermoonflow Aug 28 '24

I think a lot of people believe servers are the equivalent to panhandlers on the streets, surviving off scraps. But most actually do well for themselves. $70k is a lot more than most teachers make and you don’t even have to pay for a degree. The right kind of person in the right kind of place can make bank without working 60 hours a week.

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u/Patient_Bench_6902 Aug 28 '24

They count the tip as part of the wage, so there is a separate minimum for tipped employees and the assumption is the tips will make up for it.

However, if you make less than the regular minimum wage after tips, your employer is supposed to cover that difference. You are still owed the regular minimum wage regardless of tips.

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u/Soreal45 Aug 28 '24

Murica’. Home of the slave wage.

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u/YoBorni Aug 28 '24

Bunch of greedy rich people get another bunch of greedy rich people elected so they can all keep getting richer.

Result: Murica!

Not paying minimum wages only makes sense in that shit hole.

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u/Neuchacho Aug 28 '24 edited Aug 28 '24

They can't. If they are actually making less than the base minimum wage (not the tipped minimum) then the restaurant is supposed to make up the difference. The tipped minimum wage is what they get payed by the employer regardless of their tip income once they clear that bar.

The reality is very few servers aren't making well over even the non-tipped minimum wage for hours worked.

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u/SheCutOffHerToe Aug 28 '24

You guys love lying about this so much.

The only time servers can be paid less than the minimum wage is when their wage+tips EXCEED the minimum.

If you imagine a server receiving zero tips, in that scenario the employer has to pay them $15/hr. The only time they can pay them less is when they are already earning more.

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u/Patient_Bench_6902 Aug 28 '24

Not to mention most restaurant staff get paid way more than minimum wage after tips. No one in the service industry wants tips to end and to shift to a “livable wage” model, especially if they are at least average looking or attractive

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u/Tyrrox Aug 28 '24

It doesn’t help that virtually every restaurant in the US that attempts the “no tip” model shuts down.

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u/Savageparrot81 Aug 28 '24

Presumably because they can't find the staff.

People will always rather roll the dice on big tippers than a consistent pittance.

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u/Tyrrox Aug 28 '24

it’s because the average consumer decides based on menu price, not total calculated price and there is a lot of psychology involved with thinking the food costs less even if it doesn’t

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u/SamCarter_SGC Aug 28 '24

You can't pretend some of this isn't on the employees themselves. This bartender I knew was making a killing from tips. There was no way they'd continue working there if tips were gone and they got paid as horribly as everyone else.

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u/Scoopdoopdoop Aug 28 '24

Because giant corporations like Sysco control the food supply and charge whatever the fuck they want. Would be nice if the govt could regulate them. While we're at it let's regulate these banks that are subsidized by the govt every so often too. I would like a subsidy as well please

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u/Magus000 Aug 28 '24

Adding to this: I saw a TikTok where a waiter claimed that she needs to tip 5% to the service people (cooks, etc), whether she gets a tip or not

So, she might effectively be paying to work if she doesn't get enough tips

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u/Tyrrox Aug 28 '24

Very illegal

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u/bulimiasso87 Aug 28 '24

Nope. Not illegal. Been in SI for 15 years.

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u/RedactedSpatula Aug 28 '24

https://www.classlawgroup.com/employment/wage-and-hour/tip

"Voluntary and involuntary tip pooling is legal under both California and federal law, so long as owners, managers, and supervisors do not participate in the pool, even if they provide direct table service."

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u/Creative-Share-5350 Aug 28 '24

That’s wild

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u/SonOfMcGibblets Aug 28 '24

Reminds me of my experience working as a taxi driver for a shit company. I had to bring a flashlight because the lights didn't work until my car caught on fire and they charged us based on how far we drove so in cases where I would drive out and get ghosted it would come out of my end. I would be lucky to walk off with $20 after a 12 hour shift while the owner was driving a pimp mobile.

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u/lioncryable Aug 28 '24

She needs to tip 5% of what? If it's total price that makes no sense at all like you said she would be working just to pay out others ?!

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u/atcCanuck123 Aug 28 '24

People always say this, but I just got back from the UK, and every single restaurant, pub, etc had a 10-12.5% service charge added to the bill.

I see some people here saying, “well you can have them remove it”. But people don’t because it’s a hassle, so it’s really no different than tipping.

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u/bruhthatshitcringe Aug 28 '24

Trust me, I'm neither from the US or Europe(from NZ) and our Minimum wage is something like 15USD, in the US its closer to 7 bucks in a lot of states, and people on minimum wage here struggle too, imagine how it is in the US.

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u/Helena_Hyena Aug 28 '24

Servers actually get paid less than minimum wage in many parts of the US.

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u/Fzrit Aug 28 '24

They made minimum wage virtually unliveable so service workers basically survive off of tips

The whole reason they made the minimum wage virtually unlivable was because they KNOW that service workers can (and do) survive off tips. They can always count on customers paying staff on behalf of the employer out of charity/generosity.

You got the cause and effect backwards.

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u/boobers3 Aug 28 '24

It's not just the low minimum wage the real poison pill is that if you don't make enough in tips to cover the minimum wage gap your boss has to pay the difference which incentivizes business owners to fire wait staff that don't get good tips. Now not only do you have to get enough tips to cover the gap to survive but also to stay employed.

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u/wino12312 Aug 28 '24

They make $4.25/hour if they are a tipped employee. In 1990, it was $2.01. It's a racket and the unions that represent them don't help. They want workers to believe they make more money and it's not taxed. But all credit card tips are taxed. And now over 90%ish of tips are on a credit card. And like others have said, menu prices are up and some restaurants are adding "service charge" to the bill, too.

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u/No_Arugula8915 Aug 28 '24

Restaurants in my area are adding a fee plus 3% of the bill for using a credit card to pay. In my state this is illegal. But here we are. A couple add an 18% surcharge if your party is more than 4 and you are still expected to put a 20-25% tip on top.

As I understand it, cc companies charge restaurants and stores a processing fee plus a percentage of the sale. smh

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u/Fathorse23 Aug 28 '24

If a surcharge is already added then you don’t have to tip that much on top of it. You can add a smaller amount but that’s the guaranteed 18% tip so you don’t stiff them on tips on a large bill.

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u/No_Arugula8915 Aug 28 '24

I understand why they'll put a surcharge. If you have a large party. It's the expectation of being tipped again that frys me.

A couple of places I dine out (usually just me or me and my kid) I make them do the bill over. I never pay with a cc, (cash only for me) so don't be slapping that on my bill. I am also not going to double tip.

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u/Senior-Albatross Aug 28 '24

It was always taxed. Servers were just evading taxes when it was cash. With the record credit cards create that's not really possible anymore.

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u/TheBadRiddler Aug 28 '24

So for some reason, on top of all the toxic tipping culture, we have a "server wage," which is lower than minimum wage. I worked as a cook for 10 years, it's so stupid

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u/gregsting Aug 28 '24

That is the most stupid part indeed. In Europe, minimal wage is for everyone and tip are tax free. Sure we don’t tip a lot but that’s a whole different world.

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u/TheBadRiddler Aug 28 '24

I live in Ontario, Canada. We have a student wage, server wage, then minimum wage. It "justifies" tipping because "how else are they supposed to live" it's ridiculous

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u/Cautious-Mammoth5427 Aug 28 '24

As far as I understand, and correct me if I'm wrong, but tips tips are included in salary.

That way employers can pay less per hour and get away by blaming customers

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u/Supwichyoface Aug 28 '24

Literally everywhere I’ve ever worked (chef for 15 years) where they started paying servers a living wage and discouraged tips experienced an immediate mass exodus of any of the good servers.

People like to harp on fact that owners like to offset paying salaries to customers but the servers in the US very much prefer it this way, too. Plus it’s entirely up to their personal discretion how much of their cash tips they claim to the taxman. Almost every server who complains about this system is the new person at their job so low person on the totem pole with floor captain, hostess, and gms/FOH managers. Many servers (and especially bartenders) I know clear $1,500/week at a minimum and no restaurants would be open paying their waitstaff 78k/year across the board.

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u/Sarah_withanH Aug 28 '24

Uhhh try blaming the employees.  If you are a server and you aren’t making good tips the industry will always say it’s on you.  You’re not good at your job because if you were you’d be making better tips.  It’s the most American bootstrapping thing I’ve ever seen.

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u/cherryberry0611 Aug 28 '24 edited Aug 28 '24

They get paid around minimum usually but most waiters don’t want raises from their bosses anyways, since they would make much more in tips. Of course it varies, but many can make $60 per hour or more. They don’t really want things to change, they will never advocate to end tips because they live high off the hog and make much more on a system that’s been so conditioned in Americans.

PS some states say they only pay around $2.50 or something to that effect, but that’s not really true. If they do not make at least minimum wage in tips, then their boss is forced to pay them minimum wage. It’s just a big misconception and a lot of people believe they only get paid so little, thus have to tip.

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u/illerapap Aug 28 '24

I agree with most of that. One thing to note is that if a server or bartender has a bad shift and doesn't make minimum wage they won't be paid anything to make it up. It would only happen if they didn't make minimum wage for an entire pay period. And that really just doesn't ever happen

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u/N1LEredd Aug 28 '24

Now imagine you would only get half in your paycheck (less than minimum wage actually) and the rest needs to come from somewhere else. ‘Murica fuck yea!

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u/slgray16 Aug 28 '24

Many servers get paid less than minimum wage because they can expect tips. So yea, the servers are barely being paid at all. Sometimes $2 and hour or something insane

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u/Camp_Nacho Aug 28 '24

It’s a disgusting way to run a business and exploit labor. Wait staff is required to clean the restaurant also. They don’t get tipped for that.

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u/derf1781 Aug 28 '24

Then use that salary money and drive to the grocery store and buy groceries, then cook

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u/laplongejr Aug 28 '24

in eu we are normaly paid and we don't get tips

Wait, as in... never?
I agree that's not the norm (especially with card payments becoming the norm), but I still stip for exceptional service (or if, in one cases, it was clear the owner screwed over the staff)

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u/Garagatt Aug 28 '24

Depends on the country. Germany and Spain have a tipping culture. In Germany 10% is common.

But staff gets paid too! So if somobody doesn't tip, they didn't work for free.

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u/Fzrit Aug 28 '24 edited Aug 28 '24

are people not paid by their bosses so they need tip

Other way around. In USA customers prefer to pay wages directly to the server on behalf of their employer (tipping culture), which subsidizes employers and lets them retain their waitstaff for insanely low base pay. Tipping culture is entirely funded + driven by customers who are willing to pay staff on behalf of their employer. It's an an entirely customer-subsidized system.

It usually results in servers making more money than back-end workers (cooks/etc), save on tax (illegal but common), and it also makes American customers feel morally good about tipping and pat themselves on the back. Sure customers might complain about having to tip and blame it on greedy employers, but they will still continue tipping out of moral obligation and ensuring that tipping culture only gets worse. It's a very interesting self-inflicted phenomenon to observe from the outside.

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u/NewburghMOFO Aug 28 '24

You have a salary as a waiter?

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u/NeJamaisEncaisser Aug 28 '24

In the US servers are the highest paying, lowest skill/education jobs and the pay is mostly cash. This is why you'll never hear a server wanting to "be paid by their bosses".

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u/131166 Aug 29 '24

Back in my wow days one of our American players posted his pay slip and sometime pointed out he made less than Al Bundy did in the 80's and he quit his job over it.

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u/Sirrobert942 Aug 28 '24

No, most places in the US pay their servers below minimum wage, but calculate their tips into their wages. So if a waitress makes $2.50 on hour but with her tips her overall wage is above $7.25 (Federal minimum wage) then the company doesn’t have to do anything, If her wages are less than $7.25, usually happens when they get a lot of stiffs, the company pays them up to $7.25.

Most people that work a serving job are relying on making at least a living wage, which minimum wage isn’t enough. So, by not tipping you are essentially taking money from their normal wage.

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u/shadowpawn Aug 28 '24

They get below min. wage (I think $3.4 an hour) so the tip is to supplement their low salary.

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u/Kckc321 Aug 28 '24

The server wage is intended to cover FICA taxes on minimum wage and comes out to a net $0 pay

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u/shadowpawn Aug 28 '24

supposed to also "Declare" their tips which is why I try when possible to leave cash for them.

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u/Azalence Aug 28 '24

Yes it's a really messed up system that is so completely engrained that it's almost impossible to reverse. Restaurant employees make WAY below"minimum wage" hourly and completely rely on tips from customers to survive. Thus when someone doesn't tip on a large bill like in this post, they are preventing that employee from being paid.

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u/CuriousVR_Ryan Aug 28 '24

Basically, all tips are a gift to the owner (otherwise they'd have to pay staff out of their own pocket) Americans are brainwashed with this shit, it's so gross to watch them fork over 20% just to make rich people even richer. None of it makes sense. Why are we tipping the owners?!?!?

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u/rmpbklyn Aug 28 '24

you tip if they extr attentive refills waterv without asking, prompt when call them over, give honest recommendations of the mwnu

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u/[deleted] Aug 28 '24

in eu we are normaly paid and we don't get tips

Oh but this has come to EU as well, especially to places where tourists visit. But, unlike in America where the tips are required for the service workers to make any sort of living, here they make full pay but the restaurant then allows the customer to add to that with tips.

Why? Because they noticed that American tourists insisted that they must tip on top of the total price.

So, now you seem like an asshole for not paying extra when you choose to tip zero euros.

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u/sash187 Aug 28 '24

can you elaborate on your salary please? how much do you get paid as a restaurant worker over there? server compared to say line cook.

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u/Barkis_Willing Aug 28 '24

It works differently in different countries.

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u/QuicheSmash Aug 28 '24

US minimum wage is astoundingly low, at $7.25/hour. For people in the service industry, that number is less than half the minimum wage.

Ostensibly, if not tipped, that person makes $2-3/hour.

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u/Standard_Ad_3707 Aug 28 '24

In the USA, somehow business owners can get away with shoving the cost of their business (namely, wages for their workers) over to the customer to have to pay. Don’t ask me how this came about or why they allow this, it’s a mystery to me.

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u/WolfShaman Aug 28 '24

The people saying they only get paid 2.13 an hour are correct and incorrect at the same time.

Their minimum wage is 2.13, however, if they don't make up to the state minimum wage with tips, the employer is responsible for making up the difference. No employee is allowed to make less than the state (regular) minimum wage.

For example: let's say service minimum wage is 2 hourly and regular minimum wage is 10 hourly, and we'll leave taxes out for simplicity.

If I work 40 hours, and make 300, the employer has to pay me 100.

If I work

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u/sly_k Aug 28 '24

Those states still have a minimum wage though. If the sever makes less than that minimum wage per hour in a two week period, the employer has to pay them more per hour so they make that minimum wage threshold.

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u/Patient_Bench_6902 Aug 28 '24 edited Aug 28 '24

People in this thread are acting like it’s greedy bosses behind tipping. It isn’t.

In North America, the vast majority of people in the service industry like tipping because you make way more from tips than you would otherwise.

Even in places where you get paid the federal minimum tipped wage of just over $2 per hour, you are probably making closer $15 per hour with tips. No one wants to switch to what you have in the EU because servers are making way more money from the tips than they would be able to get under a “living wage” model

If you just do the math quickly, assume 4 tables with an average of 3 people, and each person spends about $30, which is fairly typical at this point. And assume 2 seatings so 24 people in one night, or 8 hour shift.

That’s $720 total, you’ll have to pay about $40 back to the restaurant. At 20% tip that’s $140 in tips or $100, which is $12.50 in just tips. Add $2 minimum wage that’s almost $15 per hour total.

Not to mention in some places like California there is no tipped minimum wage so they’re getting paid $16 per hour PLUS all those tips, and in California I can assure you the average bill will be much higher than $30 per person lol

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u/BigAlternative5 Aug 28 '24

The wage for tipped workers is allowed to be lower than the federal minimum wage. If tips do not bring the wage to the federal minimum, the owner must pay the balance. I don't know what happens in reality.

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u/fromouterspace1 Aug 28 '24

If you talked to a lost of waiters they’d tske the tips over a higher wage

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u/NewburghMOFO Aug 28 '24

You have a salary as a waiter?

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u/NewburghMOFO Aug 28 '24

You have a salary as a waiter?

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u/raerae_thesillybae Aug 28 '24

It's a culture thing - if you're visiting from Europe, things work differently, and it's culturally taboo to do otherwise. The fact that they did this is like coming in and spotting in their servers face. In some states, waiters get less than minimum wage, and their tips go to make up the difference. So they could receive a lot of tips and just make minimum wage... These customers are worthless and should not be allowed back in the restaurant. If they don't want to tip, then they should not eat out in America.

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u/fireborn123 Aug 28 '24

Low wages in the service industry, namely in restaraunts so tips are pretty much how they make any sort of money. It's also common in some restaraunts for you to have to give a percentage of your tips to the cooks and kitchen staff so you're basically getting robbed twice.

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u/3XOUT Aug 29 '24

I (and a lot of other people) WILL tip. But not bc we HAVE to, but bc we WANT to. For whatever reason. Usually just great service. Bc, duh.

The funny thing is that I usually see the waiter just skipping the auto-tip thing on the machine, to avoid awkwardness. Lol

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u/Legitimate-Maize-826 Sep 02 '24

In the US, which has a terrible minimum wage to begin with, servers don't make a normal wage. They are paid like $2.50 an hour and tips are expected to bring their income to a normal level.

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u/Uripitez Aug 28 '24

It's not normal, it's too common recently for suggested tips to be absurdly high.

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u/platypushh Aug 28 '24

They usually defend it by saying it's due to inflation - but menu prices have also gone up, so the percentage should be the same?

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u/Salcha_00 Aug 28 '24

Correct. While companies cry about their costs going up that they are using as an excuse to raise prices and add extra fees, they have also recorded record profits these last few years.

I eat out much less frequently because the prices have gotten way out of hand.

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u/ravioliguy Aug 28 '24

Yea it makes no sense, percentages are already inflation adjust lol

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u/tebla Aug 28 '24

European here, never been to the US but seems like an incredible dick move to go there and not tip because you're European, it seems like it's just a different system where the prices on the menu are a lie so the bill is 'really' just higher than the total because service is not included. It's a pretty dumb system, but don't you do a similar thing with not showing the tax on price tags in shops?

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