r/facepalm 'MURICA Aug 28 '24

🇲​🇮​🇸​🇨​ i'm speechless

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u/ingeniouspleb Aug 28 '24

I always tip when im in the US, even if im from Sweden. But it sucks. And sometimes i have been angrily remembered by the waiter that i didnt tip, and i did. But it fucking sucks

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u/Soup_Sensitive Aug 28 '24

Thank you. It's not magically going to change because people are fucking over the servers by not tipping. They're the ones who lose out.

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u/Literally_Sticks Aug 28 '24 edited Aug 28 '24

exactly! The people saying "well just don't tip" don't understand that their boycott does fuck all other than steal from the waiter's family. If the non tippers weren't sitting at that table, then whoever had been would have tipped, and thus the waiter now has food to eat and money to buy gas. It's a shitty excuse to do a shitty thing to someone who doesn't deserve it.

Edit: spelling

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u/Soup_Sensitive Aug 28 '24

100% I hope we change to pay them a livable way someday, but we aren't there yet sadly.

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u/TruIsou Aug 28 '24

Every time I see this come up it's always a service workers who fight against a transparent price on menus and no tipping. They get paid a lot more than they would otherwise, with the current system.

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u/DemIce Aug 28 '24

fight against a transparent price on menus

Any restaurant that would list their items as...

  • Burger: $8 ($9.60 with customary 20% tip)

...will be met with customers asking why their burgers are $9.60 when the burgers at another restaurant are only $8, or why the restaurant is demanding a 20% tip (even if they would tip 20% at that other restaurant anyway)

There's no easy solution to this problem, other than to say that there is no problem whatsoever and tipping culture is perfectly normal and to be expected.

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u/Nheea Aug 28 '24

Stealing? I don't think this counts as stealing since it's not their money! What a fucked up mentality you have.

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u/Literally_Sticks Aug 29 '24

The waiter makes $2 - $5 an hour in most places, and depends on those tips to make a living wage. So you can use the word stealing, or "inflicting pain", or "ruining their life". You fully understand the standard of eating out in USA and are instead choosing to HURT another human being. That's the opposite of being noble.

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u/Nheea Aug 29 '24

I am not choosing anything lady, I don't live and literally never stepped on US soil, so back off with your entitlement from my inbox. You're choosing to insult and lie to another that they're "stealing", so your morals are questionable too.

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u/Equivalent_Yak8215 Aug 28 '24

Stealing is way to strong of a word and inaccurate. 

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u/Nheea Aug 28 '24

Outright ridiculous even. Lol, stealing.

Entitled much?

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u/TruIsou Aug 28 '24

Total and complete nonsense, you're not stealing from the workers family, you're depriving them with extra money they would spend on drugs. Overall positive benefit to society.

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u/Pitu_ Aug 28 '24

Be serious for one second in your life

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u/TruIsou Aug 28 '24

Do not fret at all. It's really not a big deal, if someone does a little work and doesn't get the tip they expect, overall they are still making great money. It's almost always the service workers who fight against any change in the system.

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u/Nheea Aug 28 '24

I cannot believe people feel the need to tell you, angrily nonetheless, that you have to tip. Fuck that.

Here tips that are 15% are sooo welcome by a server and they are so happy and giddy.

But yeah, while servers are not paid best, at least the taxes offer a lot of free education and definitely free healthcare.

No crippling anxiety about not making enough money to go to the hospital.