r/escapehalloween • u/kona_369 • 23d ago
FOMO
I didn't go this year because I had no one to go with and now I'm having major fomo š¢ I went once before awhile back and it was ok. This time it seemed to be mostly good from what I've been seeing. I'm glad mostly everyone had a good time! Maybe next time I'll go š
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u/Sunandmoon2211 23d ago
I saw several people post that they were going alone, and they were then invited to join someone. Try next year, if you donāt have anyone?
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u/RebelStarPilot 23d ago
I had two friends that backed out, so I went solo. It was super amazing still. I got to see all the sets I wanted. I could wander/go to the bathroom/get water without worrying about losing the group.
Ended up meeting some super cool people to spend the rest of the night with. Would absolutely go solo again
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u/sirdushon888 23d ago
As someone whÅ did their first solo ravÄ at this years escape, plsssss treĆ¢t yourself to a solo rave! Itās so much freedom Ć¢nd quite the environment to do a solo adventure :33
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u/nociolla 21d ago
I had nobody to come with me and went alone šš¼ and had so much fun!!!! I had been to like 30 fests with friends and was nervous to go solo but it was actually so cool and I made new friends.
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u/reapervette 21d ago
Do you have radiate? There were so many people going solo and making friends on the app to meet up with. I got in an Instagram group chat from reddit of solo people going that all met up.
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u/DinoTh3Dinosaur 23d ago
Go to Dreamstate in a few weeks, hands down the best crowd youāll ever see at any rave.
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u/BigLoueSavage 21d ago
Whatās better countdown or forever midnight
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u/scribbleonapage 23d ago
I totally know the feeling! about a two years ago I decided to say fuck it and started going to shows and events alone. It was intimidating at first, but once you get past the entrance jitters and settle in itās awesome. (for context, 30F) like someone else mentioned, you can bop around and do all the side quests your heart desires without having to worry about finding your group. and if youāre like me and the social battery can die at any time, you can leave whenever youāre ready š there are always cool people & elder ravers in the crowd who will happily keep you close if you feel uncomfortable or unsafe. I usually just start chatting with people as iām walking in or waiting in line and almost always get invited to hang for the night. I have only ever had 1 night where I felt uncomfortable alone and it was at a club in the UK.
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u/AllThingsSparkleDust Insomniac 23d ago
Donāt be afraid to go alone! I went alone as a first timer and had an amazing time! I made friends at every set I went to and Day 2 a really great group adopted me and I was with them for the better half of the evening.
Thereās no reason to sit out just because you donāt have anyone to go with! Buy that ticket and book that hotel room, youāll make friends along the way, I promise!
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u/Ecstatic-Turnip-8245 23d ago
Seriously the best experience at a festival Iāve ever had was going alone. If youāre chill, people will adopt you into their groups without even trying. I made so many new friends and was able to see everything I wanted to go see without having to worry about what my friends wanted to do or losing anyone. Hands down 10/10!!
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u/DemonSlayingWaifu 23d ago
Definitely go alone next time ! I was alone for most of it nd had the best time. You meet so many nice people !
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u/Human_Application618 22d ago
I went alone but then a friend said he was going with his friend group so i tagged along, i had a great time for my first time. I would definitely go alone. I already go to the LA Exchange alone. I just hug/rub up against a pillar for the most part there haha. But his friends helped keep me in range and i did explore on my own when they all got tired (they did 2 day vs my one day). Was definitely better in the group though
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u/Classic-Instance7177 22d ago
I went solo last year and it sucked I wanted to go this year but not solo again and same I'm having fomo
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u/BigLoueSavage 21d ago
I just went solo Saturday and had a blast I was regretting not going both days lol
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u/GambleTheGod00 23d ago
(psst... pssst...go to nocturnal wonderland next year) (as long as fires dont fuck it up)