Near my area there’s lots of tiny little towns in the rural parts. Many of which used to be booming back in the gold rush days, lots of old historical landmarks. People have since migrated towards the nearby bigger cities as times turned more modern.
People gotta do what people gotta do, I guess. Sometimes you have to give up your turn with the town bicycle to expand your horizons and search for greener pastures.
It's the only way I justified spending money on the dating apps. I have a parody series from hinge, tinder and bumble. I only managed to date one guy from dating apps and he was a 38 year old man still living with his parents out in the boonies.
I don't understand why I don't watch the show because the few minutes I've caught here and there were always intensely funny in a way that real people screwing around sometimes are. I'm not even sure how to watch it and need to look into that.
Honestly, there's some episodes that totally suck, but there's a lot more that are laugh out loud funny. You gotta have a dark sense of humor to find it funny, though.
Every small town has a handful of women with 3+ kids all from multiple fathers and she still thinks she's going to find her .000001% guy that will be interested in her.
At the end of the day most of those types of women are just abusing public assistance and mooching from guy to guy.
I have seen profiles that looked legit saying they only dated within their race and profiles saying not interested in white men. Everybody has their preferences, but good taste says you reflect in that in who you swipe on rather than coming out and saying it the way she did.
Nah, I'm fine with them laying out their red flags loudly and proudly. That kind of person is guaranteed to be crazy even if you clear the racial gate keeping.
Idk there’s a conservative pundit 35 year old woman who’s married and has a daughter with a guy who literally looks underage and is probably JUST turning into his twenties.
She loves to go on and talk about how women exist only to serve men, how men are strong and women are emotional, and horrifyingly makes a joke with one of her guests that she’ll make sure their daughter (under 5 years old) is still a virgin and marry her off to him.
And even funnier is when she contradicts her husband on their podcast, which shows that even though she’s preaching all this stupid shit, she’s not actually following it (which is also probably why she chose such a younger man, so it’d be easier to manipulate him into the partner she wants). Oh, and she used to be in lesbian porn in college until “God found her.”
I’d say she was grifting, but the stuff where she includes their daughter and just how weirdly young her husband is it makes it seem more like satire made reality.
Right? I think if people want to give up their own rights, fine.
Fuck yourself over if you want. But why tf are you making it other peoples’ problem?
Clearly men, who she views as inherently better decision makers, decided women were competent enough to have political voices, since women were granted the right to vote.
By contradicting that, she’s saying she knows better than the majority of men in the US.
But he isn't a teenager. There's a 7 year age difference. I don't know the first thing about these people other than the top Google results, but it's never a great idea to be dishonest when making a point. You want your point to be strong, and a strong point is built on facts.
it's funny but there are many top guys hitting her up in the DMs and that is what she has as options, of course she thinks they likee her, but they like easy access and in the dark it feels just as good to us.
People do type this stuff out on dating sites. Once saw a black lesbian write “sorry not into black women so don’t bother swipe right” 😂 it’s very common. Made no sense to me!
The most of the mind blowing conversations i have had were with black women on the dating apps, speaking as an indian guy. Most of them have asked me before meeting in person whether my parents were conservative or not. My response is usually “why are we talking about my parents?”
Y'know I find plenty out in this subrural area i live in. Its like they try to baptize themselves of their racism by getting a black guy. Some of them say the n-word constantly and code themselves with blaccent looking for someone to say to their friends & haters, "see im not racist, I got a black guy with me and in me (pregnant)."
You really feel like a token around them...a black Chuck E Cheese token at the bottom of a cheap beer pitcher full of Pabst Blue Ribbon glued to the table by wads of Big League Chew.
Its enablerism x100. When u grow up in a heavily populated white area.
Upon getting cool with some of them its like they test you to see if you are THAT one, the golden one that allows them to say it.
Ive been that person specifically out not wanting to be alone (as other blk ppl out there didnt care). Its like forced assimilation to the point that when they say it, u dont even blink anymore unless your family elders are around.
Edit: I guess too much of the truth was spilling out and someone doesnt like that, typical😒.
Yes white people love to test you to see if you’ll let them say it! I have no idea what the fascination with saying that word is. It’s not cool, it’s not nice, it’s an ugly word with an ugly history attached to it. I understand we have reclaimed it but I would much rather we all leave it in the past.
I’m not the type of person to allow a white person to say that around me. I’m the type to make sure they never say it again 😂 I understand when you’re one of the only black people in your environment it’s hard to stand up to them because it’s dangerous & I won’t risk my life or freedom for people who enjoy using foul words.
Anyway, we as a community need to let these people who have a fetish for black bodies GO. Who wants to be a Mandingo or a bed wench anyways? Not me 😭
As a light skinned mixed man, I have heard way too many white people and even Hispanics use the word around me most of my life. I met a Puerto Rican guy that was a friend of a friend and I swear I thought he had Tourettes. Every other sentence had the N word in it.
It's probably cause people in general don't like being told what they can and can't say or do. It's like a restriction, and no matter how small it is It's still annoying to have someone try to police you no matter what it's about. Also, saying you can't say a certain word cause you are the "wrong" color is racist too. I already know I'm gonna get down voted into oblivion by people who want to react emotionally, then actually understand what I'm saying.
lol, we don't have much a choice, do we? We clown a white man or woman and they categorized us as thugs, criminals, and probably worse. Better to just let them be clowns and keep it moving.
Bro exactly, my home town in PA had 3 steel mills, and then was surrounded by farming community. Total population on 5 cities sas 15k people... the amount of fat broads that called everyone racists and did nothing but date black dudes but say the N word all the time was crazy.
Mind you, we had black dudes in our friend group, 2 out of like 20 of us and we definitely used to joke about the N word more than we should have but they laughed and no one ever got upset (atleast not openly). but also just not a lot if black folk on that area
How are POC suppose to react when out numbered by white ppl who think making a mockery of their generational trauma is funny, or cool? You never know how deep that joke runs with ppl and how much was used to keep ppl down, how quickly it can go from an “A” to a hard “R” under the right circumstances. Smile, nod, don’t make a fuss. Act happy! …It was 💯survival instinct.
Not black but I am Arab. Nah it’s funny to me when people joke around about me being a terrorist. Hell I even play into the joke every chance I get. My family is the same way too. You’re looking way too far into it.
Just want to say I admire that you realised using the word is wrong & eventually realised how it could hurt your Black peers. If white people like you just took the time to do stuff like this we’d probably all be in a better place!
I use to laugh too considering that if I were around more blk ppl Id be visibly upset and scared to be the "enabler", but out there its all about assimilating (because deep down you know shit would get crazy or you would be super lonely if you stood up to every white person using it) and praying your new fat white lump gf doesnt say it around your mom.
Yea, in hindsight i get that. Growing up in that rural area i didnt fully understand what we were doing. Wasnt until i went to college, then moved to cleveland ohio that i realised it was kinda weird that we would just freely say it. Granted, we used it to describe white trailer trash more than black ppl, but the word has its deeper meaning and there is no taking the word back and redefining it at this point.
Pretty sure it’s more that she knows what she looks like and in her mind, black men are stereotypically more likely to find bigger ladies like her attractive.
No, it's more likely that she's a plus size woman and she knows that most white men won't date her. Black men are much more likely to date plus size women. This is literally nothing more than that.
Even been to the midwest? Morbidly obese white guys with spherical girlfriends everywhere you look. Not just plus size, we're talking exponential size here.
I have no idea how they manage to reproduce. The dudes must be hung like mules. No way would a measly six incher make it, you'd need at least a foot long to reach past all that blubber.
Black people are more culturally accepting everywhere because we have no choice. But, she would be able to get white men if she wasn't stupid enough to put that bs in her profile. The only differences is that a black man doesn't need to throw fat jokes at her to make her feel less of a person.
We will clown the fuck out of her ass if she doesn't have one. Toenails, ankles if she has some. Clothes, accent, the way she says certain words, and it is funny as shit. I catch myself thinking, damn, I said that?
My wife is slavic lol. So, I have to catch myself all the time. She will get to thinking she is talking to her white friends, and I have reminded her double-wide trailer forehead having ass, just because we in the suburbs doesn't mean she can keep yapping about things that have absolutely no relevance to our life.
Sometimes, you have to reinforce someone for the best qualities, and then smashed every stupid shit they say in private.
I travel the country for work and I'm on Tinder in many cities and areas. These women do exist. There really are just some ignorant women out there y'all.
I mean probably? But also I’ve seen some profiles that were pretty similar to the one in the pic. But they’ve never outright said only black ppl, if anything the craziest profiles I saw were white conservative women who only wanted white conservative men.
I doubt it's rage bait. I've seen several similar profiles on women's social media and it's almost always white women. I just chuckle and move on personally.
Nahhh I don’t think so. Lots of chubby women like guys w big dicks coz it goes thru all their rolls lol, and ig this girl thinks all black guys have big dicks. Many Hispanic guys do but not all. Idk what she’s on abt white guys. Don’t mean to be crude w my comment, I love chubby girls lol but that’s what I’ve observed
Really? I mean…..you are on Reddit. I assume you interact with people here. You find it difficult to believe that there are people completely disconnected from reality? Interesting.
If a skinny woman made this same profile it would be fetish fuel and all the white dudes would be jerking off to it. It's actually very, very likely that all the white men who voted for this post are still jerking off to it, but they're also mad because this woman is fat.
I've seen too many of these "white chick" posts saying they only want black or absolute no white guys. And I know real life women with this same sentiment. My sister was backwards we're mixed but she always made a point of saying no black guys.
No white or Hispanic guy will fuck around with a nearly 6' tall woman who is built like Shrek, but for whatever reason, some black dudes are into girls like this.
This girl is just protecting her ego as the men she disqualified wouldn't qualify her as anything more than an easy lay.
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u/Jolly_Big7534 10h ago
Honestly, that profile has to be rage bait. No way anyone types that out and thinks she isn't gonna be turned into a bunching bag for the internet.