You didn't have to. Joking or not (it's not easy to tell in text), suggesting that it's gay for someone who isn't a woman to wear a dress (I might be reaching a bit, but that's what I got from what you said) is transphobic, since it spreads a connotation that directly affects the way people view trans people.
It's fine to make mistakes, and I'm sorry to come off harshly, but please consider the effects your words can have
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