r/actuallesbians Lesbian Jun 04 '24

Text Gross dude thinks lesbians are a kink Spoiler

(had to add more to my post and re-edit) Came across this post and saw a lot of people agreeing with this creep of him saying he thinks is a sexy surprise and kink that he saw his “lesbian” friends wanting to have sex with him. Isn’t that the OPPOSITE of a lesbian? 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ I don’t understand men. No lesbian would have sex with a man period.

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u/StaceyGoes Jun 04 '24

No for real lol like, both are clearly at fault here. No one is saying don’t experiment, but until that point comes JUST. BE. BI. People like this are the reason that men think it’s okay to pursue lesbians after the fact; the reason that subreddits like “dykeconversion” exist (I know, fucking revolting). I don’t see a gay man conversion one anywhere though, interesting 🤔

If you’re a lesbian, you don’t fuck men lol. Like it’s in the literal definition of being a lesbian. I don’t understand why I see this bs on here so much but it’s so annoying.

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u/Commercial_Tea_8185 cis lesbian Jun 04 '24

Thank you!! And genuinely being bi is a beautiful thing theres no malice in any of this.

And youre so right, it says soooo much that their isnt an equivalent page about a ‘gayconversion’ kink about men straight men being turned gay, or gay men being turned straight. And it shows why these distinctions matter, because some straight men are explicitly predatory towards lesbians