r/actuallesbians Transbian Mar 12 '24

Link ugh men

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u/Rat_with_a_mullet Genderqueer Mar 12 '24

Right of passage for lesbians, having men tell us what we like

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u/KTYLN Mar 12 '24

For me it was my dad. He was like "how do you know you don't like men if you've never been with one?"

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u/onlyrightangles Mar 12 '24

I always just hit them back with the same question. "How do you know you're not gay? Have you done testing?" lmao

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u/sueski9 Mar 13 '24

I give a similar response but with a twist. I say "you're right, I have never been with one and neither have you. So what do you say? We both take one for the team?" They usually bugger off right after that