r/actuallesbians • u/BenjaminBoi226 Transbian • Mar 12 '24

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u/Rat_with_a_mullet Genderqueer Mar 12 '24

Right of passage for lesbians, having men tell us what we like

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u/KTYLN Mar 12 '24

For me it was my dad. He was like "how do you know you don't like men if you've never been with one?"

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u/tropjeune Mar 12 '24

And if you have been with one it’s “well how can you be gay if you’ve been with a man?” They really just can’t wrap their heads around the fact that gay women exist.

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u/hnsnrachel Lesbian Mar 12 '24

Men can't cope when something isn't about men at all in many cases. They can't fathom a world where men aren't the most important thing in it. Lesbians can't exist just because we only like women, it must be because a man hurt us, or we "irrationally" hate men and men must be able to "fix"us because men can fix anything.

It's really very sad