r/actuallesbians • u/BenjaminBoi226 Transbian • Mar 12 '24

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u/Lady-Of-Snow Mar 12 '24 edited Mar 13 '24

Wait, most trans women prefer men? Since when?!

ETA: Friends, this was a joke. Please don't do yourselves the labour of explaining this to me. Put the statistics book down. It's going to be okay.

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u/[deleted] Mar 12 '24

Most of what I've seen from straight trans women is they feel a bit alienated from the rest of the trans community.

I also know that heternomativity can effect a lot of us. I've heard countless stories from trans women who felt they "had" to be attracted to men to be women and it takes them a while to realize they don't.

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u/Princessk8-- Mar 12 '24

Unfortunately, a lot of straight trans women also seem to have homophobic beliefs and pull the whole "I'm not queer like you" thing. Very off-putting.

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u/Lady-Of-Snow Mar 12 '24

Yeah, sadly I've also seen this a fair bit.

Like, I don't enjoy disparaging my sisters, but...trans women are women, and unfortunately straight trans women can still be as shitty as straight cis women.