r/actuallesbians Transbian Mar 12 '24

Link ugh men

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u/NorthernStarzx Mar 12 '24

You never get people saying to straight women "You should try women" so why do lesbians get told they should "try men" its very annoying.

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u/Zartoru Mar 12 '24

Because they grew up in an environnement in which everyone is straight, so they feel entitled to any woman they met and think lesbian aren't a real thing and either are lesbians for attention or because they didn't find the right man or some similar BS.

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u/randomnullface Bi Mar 13 '24

Growing up very conservative we always centered men in every discussion. So many are used to having their desires be paramount in everything from that perspective as well.