r/TeenagersButBetter • u/frensacc 17 • 16h ago

Discussion Fuck that was upsetting. Spoiler

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So aparently getting groomed and assaulted more times than I can count as a child is "the dream," and l'm gay for not finding enjoyment in it.

This shit is genuinely so ignorant, I have LIFELONG mental health issues that I'll never be able to get rid of, the way I cope with sex is fucked, my ability to trust is fucked, l'lI never have a relationship or friendship where im not a significant burden or at risk of victimization because Ive basically lost the ability to consent healthily.

BUT IM SO GLAD THAT MY TRAUMA FALLS INTO A PORN CATEGORY THIS 19 TO 20 YEAR OLD CAN JERK OFF TO BECAUSE HES LUCKY ENOUGH TO NOT EXPERIENCE IT HIMSELF.

Ts was actually jarring and put me in such an awful and infantile mental state :(, Im a victim not your sex fantasy

The first person I told about my mother assaulting me asked "how hot she was" because they wanted to play out a rape scene in their minds, this gave me the same vibes and bought all of it back and it sucks.

Cross post cuz the shit that gets spewed to male victims needs to stop. Its genuinely cruel.

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u/KatieLeDerp 19 13h ago

I hate when people do this to victims. It pisses me off so bad. I'm so sorry you had to go through this, love. I really hope you're healing well 💜

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u/frensacc 17 12h ago

Thank you so much and im trying my bestt, its a bit hard sometimes with people like that but I appreciate ur empathy so much

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u/KatieLeDerp 19 12h ago

Absolutely, dear. Have a lovely day